twinbladz Posted July 29, 2004 Posted July 29, 2004 Hey, i need some advice about what to do... Me and this girl have been friends for a long time, and i knew that she had liked me for a while. We have known eachother for about 2 yrs. and for about 1 1/2 years i have feelings for her. And i havent acted on it because i wasnt sure that they were real feelings. and i didnt want to hurt her. And just a couple days ago i finally relized that i did have alot of feelings for her. But i dont know if i should tell her my feelings.. i wouldnt know what her reaction would be. I also am holding back because a month ago she broke up with her bf because they were having relationship problems which led up to her cheating on him with some other guy. Now this is concerning me because if i date her, i dont want something similar to happen. me and her have a really good relationship, and we talk alot, and we are really close. Oh yea and there is a big age differnce. I am 17 and she is 15. Shes a freshman and i am a senior. And advice would be great. Thanks.
jmargel Posted July 29, 2004 Posted July 29, 2004 There is nothing wrong with telling her how you feel. Both of you are still young, so in all honesty the chances of your relationship lasting a long time, are against you. However, there is the possiblity of it working out. Her being 15, she still has alot of growing up to do. So you need to take that into consideration. BTW, no sex! Even if she consents to it, it'll still be statutory rape. Wait until she is at least 16 or 17. The longer you wait, the better.
kmax Posted July 29, 2004 Posted July 29, 2004 I'm a mother of a 17 year son and I want my son to be happy. But I would tell him, think real hard, are you willing to wait until she's 18 to have a sexual relationship with this girl. If the answer is yes, tell her how you feel, if you're not sure or the answer is no just be friends or end the relationship where it stands. Good luck. Be happy.
Author twinbladz Posted July 30, 2004 Author Posted July 30, 2004 Thanks for the advice.. This saturday or tomorrow i am going to ask her to a dinner and a movie and then during dinner i am going to tell her how i feel. I am just really nurvous about what her reaction is going to be. I have been hurt many other times and I dont want this to be another one. I also hope this wouldnt change our relationship. Also has any of you guys told your intrest your feelings? if you did could you tell me what happen i would greatly appreciate it. But if you guys want to know what happen I will def tell you.
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