church9832 Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 Seriously single me wasn't really awesome. He had no direction and no passion. He was Shy, needy and unhappy. When I was with my girlfriend I was on top of the world and had something to shoot for again. I know it's a case of if you don't love yourself then how can you love another but the couple me was always the better person. The more awesome. I know this because single me would never do the things couple me would do, my gf brought out the best in me. The greatest critic of the world is yourself and I know my weaknesses and m strengths but it's was her who loved both of them. No person loves their own weaknesses
KatZee Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 The "couple" you was co-dependent and your validation came from other people, not yourself. Believe me, you don't want to be co-dependent and so reliant on others for your own frame of mind. Because look where that left you? You have such little self-esteem, such insecurity, and such a lack of confidence that you HONESTLY believe you are worthless and nothing without your ex. At the end of the day, the only person you have, IS YOURSELF. You have to love yourself. Quirks and all. I love my flaws. I have a temper issue and I can fly off the handle if seriously provoked. I will put you in your place and come off like the world's biggest b.itch. But apparently people find that sexy (Calico I'm talking to you. ) So perhaps things you hate about yourself, aren't so bad to others. Clearly your ex loved you and didn't think those were flaws, so why beat yourself up so bad? You need to learn to love and appreciate all of yourself. I'm not sure why you can do things with a girlfriend and not alone. I'd take this time to really discover who you are. If you put forth that effort I'm sure you'll find that the real you will come out in time. The one who's able to do things you did with the girlfriend, and then MORE. 1
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