Dessembrae Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 So now that I've had enough time to process my break up and can start looking at it with a relatively clear mind I'm noticing my moat recent ex is basically my first ex... Personalities, relationships with they're families, How they acted while we dated, they're so similar it's creepy. And also kinda worries me because my first Ex was a horrible girlfriend and I'd very much prefer to not end up with someone like her, however the first and recent ex's were the two I fell the hardest for. :s
yongyong Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 Yep. it's similar for everyone unless they had really really bad experience with the ex. For me, it's like getting a puppy. I had hard time living with basset hounds (barks very loud, loses lots of hair, eats non-stop, kind of stupid) but I think I will get another basset hound when I can get a dog. I can get a different dog that's easy to live with (like a lab) but I won't develop a personal affection that's close to basset hound. You have a deep personal affection for the person but there is some difference that can cause the problem VS you guys get along perfect but you don't have a deep personal affection towards that person. We want everything but sometimes you have to make a choice.
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