lovehurts5 Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 I have just come to find people are SO good at lying. I trust people too easily and then wind up getting hurt because of it. I'm curious... How many people on here can honestly say they wouldn't cheat on a person. How do u know if a person is lying?
Leigh 87 Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 Try to meet worthy people, and if it does not work out, try again. Do not give up, because most people will deal with heartache at some stage. I sure have. First of all, meet people who show their into you, then try to just find a person where you both really love being with each other, and try to make sure they seam very genuine, with no dubious behaviours. It is that simple and that hard; pick people who appear wonderful and who make you really happy. If it fails, which is normally does, be strong enough to pick yourself up and be ready to try again. Find people who are WORTH the heartbreak! So you look back and think "wow, we have a really fun, positive, enjoyable and loving relationship. It did not work out, but I do not regret my time spend with ___them____ because it was a really fulfilling time in my life" In summary: my golden rule is to find a person who seams into you. If they do everything right, and everything feels great between you and they make you happy, it will be well worth the risk of losing them.
Dessembrae Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 Unfortunately you can't always tell and just have to take a chance, the saying "you can't judge a book by it cover" tends to work for this. I've never cheated on anyone but a lot of the time when I tell girls that they seem to have a hard time believing it, the fact I work in a club I guess doesn't exactly help haha
CptObvious Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 (edited) Unfortunately you can't always tell and just have to take a chance, the saying "you can't judge a book by it cover" tends to work for this. I've never cheated on anyone but a lot of the time when I tell girls that they seem to have a hard time believing it, the fact I work in a club I guess doesn't exactly help haha One time dis bitch bought one of them mini spy bull**** cameras and forced me to wear it at all times whenever I'm not around her. Edited October 15, 2012 by CptObvious
Dessembrae Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 You have to remember its not personal, everyone is just looking out for their own best interests and finding happiness. Very rarely do people lie or cheat in spite of you. Unfortunately it's hard not to be hurt by others action but in the end there's nothing you can do about it so just be the kind of person you want to be and treat others with the respect you want back from them
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