Date outfits

[mesmerized]

When I go on dates, I would rather be overdressed than underdressed. It happened a couple of times before that guys told me I'm looking too good for the occasion and were a bit upset they were dressed very casually but I think they still enjoyed the look and the fact thay I put some effort. How much do you care about your outfits and what is your typical style when going on a date?

[ThaWholigan]

I always go smart-casual - never fails. My bro taught me the beauty of matching colors aswell - girls like that sh*t .

 

Of the few dates I've been on, none underdressed nor overdressed particularly. Pretty much smart casual as I have been. I do remember calling the girl I lost V to and asking her to dress up because I was coming over . That's for another day though

[tori0001]

Nice and casual, simple.

[yongyong]

You are a woman right? there is nothing wrong for a woman to dress nicer than a man. Actually you should dress nicer than a man lol

I wouldn't dress like you are going to a formal dinner party though. it will come off as you are taking a date too serious.

You can be still stylish with common items like skinny jeans and leggins

 

As a guy who cares about fashion little, it turns me off when she shows up with tennis shoes or some other ugly shoes you wear at work to be comfortable.

[CptObvious]

let dem titties out

[mesmerized]

You are a woman right? there is nothing wrong for a woman to dress nicer than a man. Actually you should dress nicer than a man lol

I wouldn't dress like you are going to a formal dinner party though. it will come off as you are taking a date too serious.

You can be still stylish with common items like skinny jeans and leggins

 

As a guy who cares about fashion little, it turns me off when she shows up with tennis shoes or some other ugly shoes you wear at work to be comfortable.

 

Well, if a guy has a bad style, it will turn me off too but yeah guys wont complain if youre too stylish.

 

let dem titties out

 

Haha. Actually, this brings up a good question. How conservative should a woman dress on first dates?

[Ninjainpajamas]

Haha. Actually, this brings up a good question. How conservative should a woman dress on first dates?

 

Dress the way you want to be treated.

[mesmerized]

Dress the way you want to be treated.

 

Good point.

[xdahliax]

It depends on what we're doing and on how I feel about the person. I've worn wedges with tailored black pants and a cinched blouse for dates that required lots of walking, and I've worn form-fitting dresses on dates where I knew the person better and really wanted to impress them.

 

Also, just make sure that you're comfortable in whatever you're wearing. You don't want a bad outfit to ruin the date because you're too self-conscious.

Edited October 15, 2012 by xdahliax

[Eternal Sunshine]

I wear something flattering, a dress or a skirt, but not too revealing. Dress/skirt is not above the knee (or at least not by much ) and there is almost no cleavage on display.

[NoMoreJerks]

When I go on dates, I would rather be overdressed than underdressed. It happened a couple of times before that guys told me I'm looking too good for the occasion and were a bit upset they were dressed very casually but I think they still enjoyed the look and the fact thay I put some effort. How much do you care about your outfits and what is your typical style when going on a date?

In the winter, it's harder to appear "overdressed" -- since I don't own a car and walk myself to dates, I can't wear anything fancy because I'll be too cold in it. Even now, in October, that is the case, though less so... That's why I hate winter, and I never seem to attract any men during winter. Summer is a different story, though. In the summer, I always wear dresses -- nothing too fancy; sometimes summery themed dresses, and other times a nice black dress (not slutty/very short). I don't even wear high heels.. I can't walk in them. It's too much hassle and kinda embarassing to have him notice that I went and put them on in the bathroom (which is what I often do when I go out on my own). If he were driving me to and from the date, I would be able to wear high heels, but otherwise can't.

[rocketman122]

wife beater shirt, shorts and flip flops with white socks. that'll get her

[Eternal Sunshine]

As for guys, I like to see that he has made an effort (even if his sense of style sucks ). If he turns up looking like he is going to a grocery store, I will assume that he doesn't give a f... about me.

[todreaminblue]

When I go on dates, I would rather be overdressed than underdressed. It happened a couple of times before that guys told me I'm looking too good for the occasion and were a bit upset they were dressed very casually but I think they still enjoyed the look and the fact thay I put some effort. How much do you care about your outfits and what is your typical style when going on a date?

 

When dating or in a social situation I like to dress nicely.....i like to be respected and i feel if i make an effort to dress nicely that people may make the effort to treat me nicely....when i don't care what i wear is a sign i shouldn't be going out....the colours i wear can lift me as well.....make me not so blue....like a yellow floaty dress i have makes me feel not so blue.......colour therapy....i also use colours to lift others moods if i know they are sad....a clown in retrospect....a classy clown without the heavy make up just the colours.....;0)...so dating, i would wear something appropriate.......for me..and hope who i was dating would be honest enough to say if he didnt like it and thought i was overdressed...probably wouldnt change it....but i do like honesty..i can be quirky in dressing wearing a skirt as a top.....or a dress as a top....i like colours they appeal to me.......deb