ParadeRain Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 I guess it happens generation after generation, those guys who reach their mid 20's and they're still a virgin.. never experienced having a girlfriend etc etc. So if these kind of dudes keep reappearing.. on their 25th birthday waking up to realize they still haven't tasted pussy... is this ever going to be a non-issue? At least where I'm from it's always been easy to get girls, girls here in the UK tend to want sex just as much as guys do... And personally I think that goes for all women, I just think that some guys approach the idea with the belief that they are the underdog, that women are something to be gained, the attraction only works one way.. and you are at her disposal... which is so wrong... Girls are so good at giving the impression of moral high-ground and fidelity... and I think that's what these loser guys are worrying about... "not being good enough" to approach this "impression", because that's all it is... an impression... Take fighting for example... girls fight much dirtier than guys.. us guys have punch ups, aiming for knockout punches on the jaw etc... We see girls as weak in terms of fighting... but in reality they are the dirtiest fighters of the 2 genders, hair pulling, pinching, biting, scratching, gouging... things socially unacceptable for a man fight, but standard practice in a girls fight... yet we see them as weak... Some men see girls as unapproachable in the same sense... "they'll never want me" "I'm not good enough to (gain) her".... BS! You don't have to "gain" her, in reality she wants you in her bed just as much as you want her in yours... it's an equal playing field.. stop being fooled by the "out of your league" front. Just note: There's a fine line between being confident and creepy. Wrote this because of another thread I just read on here on a similar subject. 1
ThaWholigan Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 I'm not sure I qualify as a "loser" guy, but I struggled before because of confidence and other factors. I live in London so I know exactly what you're talking about . They certainly CAN improve, if they believe they can.
Necromancer Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 We have no control over women thinking that we are creepy. (Unless we do something ridiculous) If she finds you unattractive and hit on her you are creepy. If she finds you attractive you will not be seen as creepy. I actually think there are very few "creepy" guys around, women just use this word so much that it has become meaningless.
ScreamingTrees Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 I don't think a guy is a "loser" because he's a virgin at that age, unless he's spent all of his life dwelling on what he either (thinks he) can't or hasn't REALLY tried to change.. Spending a bulk of his valuable time crying about it, possibly on an internet board. I wouldn't say a guy like Wholigan is a loser, he seems like a pretty cool, like able fellow. I figure only a real stupid douche bag would think less of a person because they didn't have that sort of experience. Not someone I'd respect or value the opinion of.
Avulare Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 We have no control over women thinking that we are creepy. (Unless we do something ridiculous) If she finds you unattractive and hit on her you are creepy. If she finds you attractive you will not be seen as creepy. I actually think there are very few "creepy" guys around, women just use this word so much that it has become meaningless. No, it's possible for guys who aren't unattractive to be creepy too. A couple years ago I had a guy start messaging me on Facebook, asking me about my photography and biology work. He wasn't ugly, but he was much older than me (he was 38, I was 22 at the time). I kept responding to his messages to be polite and friendly, but then one day in one of his messages he "confessed" that he was in love with me. He lived in another part of the country but said that he would drive out here to come live with me! If that isn't creepy, I don't know what is. He immediately got blocked after that. Even if we had been the same age and he was attractive, I still would have had the same reaction. Some guys are just downright creepy. Don't be one of them if you want to get laid.
Necromancer Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 No, it's possible for guys who aren't unattractive to be creepy too. A couple years ago I had a guy start messaging me on Facebook, asking me about my photography and biology work. He wasn't ugly, but he was much older than me (he was 38, I was 22 at the time). I kept responding to his messages to be polite and friendly, but then one day in one of his messages he "confessed" that he was in love with me. He lived in another part of the country but said that he would drive out here to come live with me! If that isn't creepy, I don't know what is. He immediately got blocked after that. Even if we had been the same age and he was attractive, I still would have had the same reaction. Some guys are just downright creepy. Don't be one of them if you want to get laid. I said unless he does something ridiculous (and he did by confessing love). So you agree.
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