sunnyme Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 My husband and i split up a few weeks ago and he is seeing a girl 20 years younger than him , the thing is he keeps texting my and its messing my head up . Some times hes asking how i am and beeing nice then other times hes being nasty . he text me 7 times the other day asking if i was ok and because i didnt reply he kept texting about silly things but i cant move on while he keeps doing this:(
Greeniydgirl Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 That sounds a little crazy...I can't tell you what's going on in his head but if I were you I would think of ways to keep him from being able to contact me. Such as, a number change or just simply blocking his #
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 You answered your own question. He's torturing you while living it up, having his cake and eating it too. I know it won't be easy but do what's right, let him know it's unacceptable and to leave you alone. It's the only option you have. Otherwise you're waiting for someone that left you once already, you're making yourself a doormat for his down times, YOU DESERVE BETTER. Also keep this in mind. Do you think he texts you when he's with her?? Do you think he thinks of you when he's with her?? You know the answer. These texts are sent during his down times, he's using you to occupy his time until he's with her again. I say again YOU DESERVE BETTER!!
Mspink702 Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 my ex keeps texting me too! and he left me for someone else. i just dont get it. i text him the other day cause i missed him and i told him that, and he said i miss you too but its time we both move on with our lives and start over take care bye. so i havent made any effort to contact him and i woke up this morning and there was a text from him and it said good morning how are you? so like an idiot i wrote back and i said im fine whats up and he said nothing i just wanted to say hello! all i can think like someone else said is that he is probably not with her right now and so he is texting me. and that sucks
Author sunnyme Posted October 14, 2012 Author Posted October 14, 2012 i just find it really selfish to be honest buy im not texting bk anymore.Icant move on while still in contact with him 1
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