Fell in love with an escort, saw her for the first time in years 2 mot

[Worrying]

My ex and I divorced 15 years ago, she turned into a bitch from hell and got fat and unpleasant to be around. After I was a free man I decided I'd never be tied down again. Escorts were perfect, I didn't have to pretend I wanted them around every day, they left after!!!

 

I'd been using a service for awhile, they're still my place, awesome women. There was a new girl, she 21 and had just started. So I decided to give it a go.

 

She was incredible, every part of her body got into it. She blew my mind, she was my new favorite, if I called it was for her. She to this day might be the best I've ever had.

 

One night we had a heart to heart, no sex involved. She admitted it was the last thing she ever saw herself doing. It was just a way to pay for school. I fell for her. I asked her not to leave and spend the night. Then social visits started to happen more often. I learned from her, her knowledge was a HUGE turn on she was smart, funny, and had killer looks.

 

This went on for probably a year. One day I called, and was informed she quit. This girl I had started to love and care for was gone in a blink of an eye...

 

Fast forward five years, I'm standing in line shaking hands at my daughter's wedding. I'm standing next to my ex wife and her husband trying to tune her out and this gorgeous girl was walking down the line with a little boy. my heart leapt, I knew her.

 

When she got to me I said "****?" she looked at me confused and said "yes?" I told her it was me. She said "oh my god Danny, how are you?" my ex looked livid, it was awesome!!! I told her I was good and crouched down to the little boy, he was dressed immaculately, he hid behind her.

 

She told me it was her son and she asked him if he could say hi. In the smallest voice I've ever heard, he let out a little "hi" and hid behind her again. My daughter watched the whole time, like hawk. She told me she knew my son in law they'd been in bands together for years.

 

Then she went and sat down with some other guys. When I was done I went and got two glasses of wine. I walked over and offered her one, she said she couldn't with her son... My ex, her family, her husband's family, and my family were all there. It was so embarrassing, I could feel myself blushing.

 

Then she and these guys she had been with got on the stage and started playing. They were really good, I lost interest in everything else, my son in law even got up with them, I'd never heard him sing before. It was so good.

 

I had to pee so I got up and went, then the music stopped... I ran out and my ex's dad started talking to me. I tried to get away and couldn't. She left before I could get to her. I was pissed, I started downing shots with the groomsmen.

 

I got smashed and freaked out at everyone. I even threw a rock at my ex wife's car. I passed out on the couch, my daughter was mad as hell the next morning, and so was I.

 

I didn't even get to talk to her really or say good bye, again! What if that's my son?! I'm worried, what if he's my only son and I never see him again, he's the right age and everything. I'm still in love with her too, what do I do?

[mesmerized]

The reality is you didn't mean anything to her. You were just a client. An old one she had to have sex with to pay for her school but wasn't really attracted to. She certainly knew you liked her yet she didn't really care to keep in touch with you. And no he is most probably not your son. If she was beautiful she was probably many other men's favorite too, just saying.

[Worrying]

He actually looked a little like me, I thought... He was very striking.

 

She had told me she was falling for me, and was embarrassed about it. She never said it again though. I even got a few "I love yous"

Edited October 14, 2012 by Worrying

[BetheButterfly]

He actually looked a little like me, I thought... He was very striking.

 

She had told me she was falling for me, and was embarrassed about it. She never said it again though. I even got a few "I love yous"

 

This is scary.

 

First of all, if she truly loved you, she would have told you that she was quitting prostitution and wanted to be with you. She didn't. Guess what that means? She was just saying what you wanted to hear when you were paying her money in order to sleep with her.

 

Secondly, I hope she was taking some sort of birth control in order to protect from getting pregnant by all the men who she had sex with... if she was smart, I am sure she was preventing herself from getting pregnant as much as possible.

 

Third, it's been 5 years for crying out loud! She is MARRIED. I am so happy she left prostitution and I very much hope she and her husband have a wonderful, happy marriage!!! I am also happy for her to have a child!!! That is awesome!!! Why can't you just be happy for her???

 

She obviously does not consider you to be the father of the child. It is more than likely her husband is the father of her child!!! So, why not just be happy for her that she has moved on, wish her happiness, and let her go? She obviously let you go!

 

These are some very real issues why prostitution does not help in many areas of life. First, you think the kid is yours. Second, you think she loves you when she didn't even tell you she quit and didn't contact you since. Third, she moved on yet you could endanger her happiness.

 

If you love her, let her go. Let her be happy. Let her leave prostitution behind her and let her enjoy her life that she has. Hopefully she has an awesome husband, an awesome marriage, and hopefully she and her husband and her child are doing great!!! Be happy for her, if you love her.

 

Love is not a selfish greedy thing. Love means caring for the other person.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Worrying

My ex and I divorced 15 years ago, she turned into a bitch from hell and got fat and unpleasant to be around. After I was a free man I decided I'd never be tied down again.

 

I doubt you were a joy to be around either Worrying. Especially after reading this post which displayed a lot of selfishness, greed, narcissism and coldness.

 

 

I learned from her, her knowledge was a HUGE turn on she was smart, funny, and had killer looks.

 

You learned from her???/ Isn't she suppose to learn from you since she is younger? As someone that use to date older men, It was never attractive if i was more worldy/mature than he and he was the one learning from me.

 

This went on for probably a year. One day I called, and was informed she quit. This girl I had started to love and care for was gone in a blink of an eye...

 

She didn't love you. She would have told you about her future plans to quit or would have contacted you after she quit if she really loved you.

 

 

Fast forward five years, I'm standing in line shaking hands at my daughter's wedding. I'm standing next to my ex wife and her husband trying to tune her out and this gorgeous girl was walking down the line with a little boy. my heart leapt, I knew her.

 

Geez, this is like something out of a bad movie. At your own daugther's wedding there an escort? One you slept with? I feel so sorry for your daughter. Geez.

 

When she got to me I said "****?" she looked at me confused and said "yes?" I told her it was me. She said "oh my god Danny, how are you?" my ex looked livid, it was awesome!!! I told her I was good and crouched down to the little boy, he was dressed immaculately, he hid behind her.

 

I doubt your ex cared as much as you think.

 

It also sounds like this girl you loved didn't even remember you. You had to remind her who you were. Not exactly the sign of someone that is in love.

 

She told me it was her son and she asked him if he could say hi. In the smallest voice I've ever heard, he let out a little "hi" and hid behind her again. My daughter watched the whole time, like hawk. She told me she knew my son in law they'd been in bands together for years.

 

This is funny. First your ex was livid now your daugther is watching liek a hawk...it's like your daugther's wedding day was about you. Not her. What a good father you are.

 

Then she went and sat down with some other guys. When I was done I went and got two glasses of wine. I walked over and offered her one, she said she couldn't with her son... My ex, her family, her husband's family, and my family were all there. It was so embarrassing, I could feel myself blushing.

 

You should have been embarressed long before this.

 

Then she and these guys she had been with got on the stage and started playing. They were really good, I lost interest in everything else, my son in law even got up with them, I'd never heard him sing before. It was so good.

 

That's a nice thing for a father to say while enjoying his daughter's wedding day.

 

I had to pee so I got up and went, then the music stopped...

 

 

Thank you for sharing with us every last detail.

 

I ran out and my ex's dad started talking to me. I tried to get away and couldn't. She left before I could get to her. I was pissed, I started downing shots with the groomsmen.

 

You have the emotional maturity of a peanut. You were that pissed that you began drinking? You are a mess.

 

I got smashed and freaked out at everyone. I even threw a rock at my ex wife's car. I passed out on the couch, my daughter was mad as hell the next morning, and so was I.

 

Yes, but you were mad because you didn't get to talk to a girl that didn't really awnt to talk to you and your daughter was mad because her father, on her wedding day, turned it about him and acted like a spoiled child getting his favorite train taken away.

 

I didn't even get to talk to her really or say good bye, again! What if that's my son?! I'm worried, what if he's my only son and I never see him again, he's the right age and everything. I'm still in love with her too, what do I do?

 

He isn't your son. She doesn't love you. you don't even seem to care how much you disrespected your daughter on her wedding day. All you seem to care about is yourself. What should you do? Seek help. Professional help. Not not of the escort variety.