loveydove Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 Ok, I am going to explain this as simply as possible. I met this guy, he facebooked me. He was really interested in me, I not at all in him (not my type). He asks my best friend to put in a good word for him, begs me to go on a date with him when I get back (spent the summer away), etc. He finally wins me over, I come back and spend my birthday with him and friends. It goes really well and I realize I like him. Next day, nothing. All the texts, all the emotional support is gone. He acts weird until one day he tells me he doesn't want to mislead me, he can tell right away if he wants to be someone's boyfriend. But we can still hookup because he is super attracted to me. ?? I'm so disappointed, and so angry at the universe (and him). Just came out of a really terribly hard breakup with my ex of 6 years. And he seemed so into me, I felt safe letting myself open up to him. Now I am left feeling like I wasn't good enough. Something about me didn't measure up in person, or I am not successful enough in our line of work (he always dates super successful women). And I am just MAD. Why go through all that work and then bail after one night? I know he has done this with other girls before, I just have a feeling. And now he is kind of hanging out with this girl, and I think he wants to be her boyfriend. He is super supportive on her facebook wall and always commenting on things. I know it sounds stupid. But I really like him now. And I can't stop thinking what does she have that I don't? Am I ever going to be enough?
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