digon1631 Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 My ex gf and I went out for 3.5 Years and she broke up with me 4 months ago. I stopped contacting her to move on with my life after walking in on her and another guy. I told her I didn't want to be friends and not to contact me while she is with this other guy. She texted me yesterday asking me for a favor and I didn't reply. She then texts me ,"did our 3 years not mean anything to you? I'm honestly hurt and confused by you." She then blocks me on Facebook. What does she want? Should I reply and with what? Is she throwing bread crumbs at me?
dreamstate83 Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 (edited) My ex gf and I went out for 3.5 Years and she broke up with me 4 months ago. I stopped contacting her to move on with my life after walking in on her and another guy. I told her I didn't want to be friends and not to contact me while she is with this other guy. She texted me yesterday asking me for a favor and I didn't reply. She then texts me ,"did our 3 years not mean anything to you? I'm honestly hurt and confused by you." She then blocks me on Facebook. What does she want? Should I reply and with what? Is she throwing bread crumbs at me? There is a simple rule with boomerangs. If you are uncertain that they are going to land in your hand or smack you in the face, you dodge. Edited October 13, 2012 by dreamstate83 4
mtnbiker Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 She cheated on you and she has the gall to ask you that? Then she blocks you? Sayonara 1
Floored Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 She wants some emotional control over you, yes, these are some breadcrumbs, and not even good ones at that. She wants to pretend you never walked in on her, she probably is finding her new fling's relationship won't be lasting three years like yours did. Seriously, not worth it, that has crazy written all over it. Not even worth texting back a zinger even though she deserves it. Dodge that boomerang.
River Rain Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 Definitely leave it be. You're moving on with your life. She texted you under the guise of wanting a favour...but it's because she wanted to somehow make you feel bad by bringing up the "didn't I mean anything to you" b.s. Don't engage or you'll be back at square one.
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