dreamstate83 Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 So let's all take a moment to stop being depressed over things that didn't work out and talk about what we look for in a partner. I'll start it off: - She has to be a genuinely caring person - She has to have some idea of direction she wants to go in life - She has to be able to communicate about things - She can't be materialistic - She should be a fan of sarcasm and bad jokes - She can have a lazy day at the house but also loves to go out once in awhile I envision her to be someone that would live on the streets if that's what it took to be with me. We don't have to agree on everything (I prefer people with their own minds after all), but we do need to respect each others opinions even if we disagree. I love having debates about difference in opinion! Bonuses: - Into art / technology / entertainment (it's what I do for a living) - High sex drive (I guess all men would probably say this) Your turn 1
River Rain Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 - High sex drive is a must, damn I'm in my prime here.... - Honest and direct, able to be vulnerable, trustworthy - Cute, fun to be with, shares my sense of humour, but also has emotional maturity (i.e. doesn't shut down when conflict arises) - Shares hobbies (hiking, working out, cooking etc) - Communicative and smart - Wants a long-term relationship, also wants to spend time with me and "us" - Most important: shares my view of the importance of intimacy, romance, affection and shows of appreciation
NoMoreJerks Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 - High sex drive is a must Be careful what you wish for. Men with quite high sex drive will almost inevitably look elsewhere / want to try pervy stuff, even if you give them sex daily. Speaking from experience.
River Rain Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 Be careful what you wish for. Men with quite high sex drive will almost inevitably look elsewhere / want to try pervy stuff, even if you give them sex daily. Speaking from experience. Yeah, but I have an extremely high sex drive and I'm not interested in doing pervy stuff and sleeping around. I appreciate the warning though
Author dreamstate83 Posted October 13, 2012 Author Posted October 13, 2012 Keep them coming! Great so far! I think whenever you guys are having a rough day, it could be beneficial to look at your wishlist and re-evaluate if what you lost really matched up to what you were looking for in the long run.
River Rain Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 Keep them coming! Great so far! I think whenever you guys are having a rough day, it could be beneficial to look at your wishlist and re-evaluate if what you lost really matched up to what you were looking for in the long run. My wishlist doesn't even compare. I was blinded by the romance!
beyond Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 I don't do lists after meeting someone who didn't seem to tick half the boxes I thought I wanted ticked. I fell completely in love with him. 1
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