frederickkk Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 i cant throw everything she gave to me away. nor can i keep it in my house. should i just give it to her parents and be done with it?
Blastoplast Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Their daughter called the cops on you... Now you want them too? You need to get a grip or go get some professional help. I don't need to read the whole story, but judging by this quote you do one of these things: - Put it in a box and tape it up - Throw it out - Donate it to Goodwill Simple as that... don't even get involved with the parents. Sheesh 1
SadPanda22 Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I put anything that had to do with my ex in a rubbermaid tub and then put the tub in the garage. Anything that didn't fit in the tub got donated to the Salvation Army. Like Blastoplast said, simple as that. No need to involve your ex or her parents in the process.
Author frederickkk Posted October 12, 2012 Author Posted October 12, 2012 4 days after the cops were called, her mother and partner drove past, she waved, he smiled. perfectly civil. they probably don't even know she called the cops.
geegirl Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 Its as if you are in another world. Your perceptions are so skewed that sometimes I wonder if you're pulling our legs with this absurd drama. Put the stuff in a box. Throw it away or stuff it in a friends place. Stop being a child and involving parents unless you're now looking to use them to get to her. You were in an R with her, not her parents. Keep the drama of the break-up on those terms as well.
coffeeloverx Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 I would donate it or put it at a friend's house/in the garage if I were you. I got rid of a lot of my ex's things and put what I couldn't get rid of at my grandparent's house in a dresser so I didn't have to deal with it.
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 i cant throw everything she gave to me away. nor can i keep it in my house. should i just give it to her parents and be done with it? TOSS THE SH|T!!! It's almost therapeutic throwing it away, another way of letting go. I tossed everything, even things I owned that reminded me of her, I rearranged my whole house, I cut my hair (new hairstyle). She asked if I wanted some stuff of mine that she had, I responded "thanks but just toss it" (also was the last time I heard from her). I wanted a fresh start. It means nothing to them anymore, why let it affect you?? When you're ready to look at the stuff again (wayyyy down the road), you prob won't want to anyway. TOSS THE SH|T!!
Author frederickkk Posted October 13, 2012 Author Posted October 13, 2012 she wants me to keep it all for memories? wtf?
thembones Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 I told my ex that I did not want her to become a shoebox under my bed. I told her that I did not want to become a shoebox under her bed. If it is stuff that is actually hers, just put it in storage somewhere and maybe she will ask for it back. If it is memories stuff (pictures, movie stubs, etc), box it up and give it to a friend to hold, but not get rid of. You aren't ready to throw it away yet. Out of sight, out if mind. The fact that she told you to keep it for memories is retarded.
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 she wants me to keep it all for memories? wtf? Memories?!?!? Are you serious?!?!? It's all pain now, all constant reminders. Later down the road it won't mean anything. It'll be just stuff. Simple math, pain now+just stuff later=TRASH 1
River Rain Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 Trash it. I deleted my ex from my life and he's a distant memory right now and I'm HAPPY. 1
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