spinaroonie Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Me: sup? Her: hey what's up? Me: i'm good. lemme ask you something random. ever give your number out to a guy, then not respond to his texts? Her: yep Me: why? Her: i was probably drunk when i gave it out. or cuz i'm too busy to respond. or no longer interested Me: and there's no guilt involved? Her: why would i feel guilty? Me: leading someone on Her: it's all part of the game Me: lol. forget about reason and accountability Her: people get numbers and not call. so why not give your number and not respond? you give numbers to people that may interest you, but not enough to return their message or call. could be many reasons. i wouldn't feel guilty about it. it's my personal choice Me: it's not just about you though Her: of course it is. why is it not about me? Me: how about consideration for the other person Her: i don't even know the other person. usually non-response is an indication of no further interest. most intelligent people will interpret it as such. it's self explanatory Me: sure. but why give out your number in the first place Her: i already told you reasons as to why i may have
yongyong Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I don't expect too much from #s I picked up. It's better to think that way for possible flake out (when you started going out, do you remember getting excited at just getting a #? lol) Let's say I got a number at a bar. I am not going to stop there, just like salesmen, I will still hand out my flyers (approaching) and get potential Customers contact info. Do I care if a girl says 'you are a player' 'you hit on many girls' Absolutely No. If you treat girls like objects, you won't get attached to it hence no hard feelings.
Anela Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 It's because the vast majority of women have no spine whatsoever, which is also why they're attracted to confidence in men. Why do men flake? If they're so confident...
xxoo Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Her: of course it is. why is it not about me? If you treat girls like objects, you won't get attached to it hence no hard feelings. Sounds pretty even in the dating world. 1
threebyfate Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Men are perfect, always adhering to a code of honour and women are flakes with no honour. End of story. 2
threebyfate Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 that isn't true.Why not? Isn't this the tale that's told a million times on LS? That women are crap and men are the best? So now, I just agree. 1
Pyro Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Why not? Isn't this the tale that's told a million times on LS? That women are crap and men are the best? So now, I just agree. You start agreeing and that will drive them away. I mean aren't they here just to argue and spread hate? 2
threebyfate Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 You start agreeing and that will drive them away. I mean aren't they here just to argue and spread hate?Don't question me. It's best to just agree. 2
Anela Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Better prospects, she's not putting out quickly enough. You're having a laugh if you think the average woman has a tenth the confidence the average man has. Go ahead and force a random sample of women to face the rejection men face. Women really aren't fooling anyone when they make excuses as to why they don't approach men, it's because they can't deal with the possibility of rejection. I've approached men. That makes me more confident than a good portion of the men on this website (who are scared to approach women). 2
Mme. Chaucer Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I'm a flake and I now realize that even the lowliest of male life form is superior to me. I bow. 2
Necromancer Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 WRONG. Most women don't NEED to approach men, especially the more attractive ones. They're used to being approached. I've never once had to approach any man I was interested in. Jeez. And women say they have it just as hard as men....what a joke.
Mrlonelyone Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I wouldn't call not answering the phone flaking. Flaking is when firm plans are made, then confirmed and then they don't show or bail at the last possible minute or just don't show.
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