spinaroonie Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Met a petite 21 year old blonde on campus on a Wednesday afternoon. Chatted for 10 minutes, got her number and texted her that night. 1st Date - Tuesday 8 PM. Met at a cafe. Went for a short walk and back to my car. Dropped her off at home and kissed her goodnight in the car. 2nd Date - Saturday 9 PM. Met at a pub. Split two pitchers. Brought her back to my place. Had sex, no resistance. She spent the night. We went out for breakfast the next morning. 3rd Date - Friday 9 PM. Picked her up from home. Drove to another cafe. Brought her back to my place. Watched some TV. She snuggled up on the couch against me and we made out for a bit, but no clothes came off and no sex. She'd only had 3 hours of sleep from working on a school project the night before, and she was working at 9 AM the following morning (legit). Dropped her off at home and kissed her goodnight. Told her I'm out of town this weekend but I want to see her again next week. Upon arriving home I get the following text: Her (1:53 AM): Okay so before I forget, I have Monday and Wednesday evening off from work, but I have early. Classes on Tuesday and Thursday Me (2:08 AM): Wed might be good. I'll see if I'm free and get back to you. now get some sleep! Her (2:11 AM): Yes, sir This morning I get the following text. Her (9:12 AM): Have fun in (city) Didn't respond. Did I screw up the third date by not escalating for towards sex back at my place? Or does it not matter at this point as I'd already had sex with her on the second date? I don't want this to set a bad precedent (dates with no sex).
sydneysider1978 Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Dude, she was really tired. She texted you straight away to try to set up the next date. If you don't respond and lock in the next date she will think you're not into her. It sounds like she's pretty into you. But, you only want to date her if she puts out all the time? What if she's sick, tired, stressed?
River Rain Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Could be her period too, I don't always like to share that information. Not responding? If I texted a guy and he didn't respond, I'd assume he wasn't interested. I don't get that game playing at all. 1
Ami1uwant Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I agree as other say.....dont expect sex every night. She sounded like she was just exhausted. It also could have been her period happening now. It's also possible the alcohol consumption played a part. If so he ma feel a little bad about herself because of it. She doesn't want this to be just about sex. It's common for women who felt the slepted too early with you to then check out of the relationship and poof. She didn't do that.
veggirl Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 no you didn't screw up by not having sex on the 3rd date. she was tired and had to get up early. why do you think you screwed anything up at all, anyway? she has been initiating contact since then....you should probably respond to her last text....she's probably wondering if SHE screwed up
Mme. Chaucer Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 If your only goal is to have sex on every date, then, yes. Massive fail. 1
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