OXFORD Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Hi My wife has been suffering from depression for a while. And about 4 weeks ago she has told me that she wasn't sure if she wanted to be with me anymore.. She says that she is not happy me doing night shifts at work sometimes and she thinks i am too stressed and things that i said in the past did hurt.. well last week we all went out as a family with kids etc and had a great time and she told me that she she will give our relationship another go. only 2 nights ago our sex life started to get back to normality as well. Sometimes she makes future plans with me, holidays, living abroad etc but then next day she says she needs a space. I am too confused and stressed and i am doing my best i can do show her love and attention and one minute she says she loves me and we make sex go out together make future plans but then next day she changes again and she says thing like 'i need a space, not sure if i want a future with him' etc. etc. all this really realy hurts me and i feel depressed too and i need councelling and help at the moment thanks for all your help and advice here regards
CarrieT Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 How old are you and how long have you been married? Usually, when someone "needs space," they are already engaged in an affair - emotional and/or physical - and want space to explore that new relationship.
KatZee Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Just an FYI since you're talking about a wife, you would need to post this in the Marriage and Life Partnerships section. The moderators are getting pretty strict regarding posts and keeping things in their designated sections. If they see this post and move it, you'll be given an infraction. I hope things work out for you though. Marriage counseling sounds like a good idea but she needs to be on board with it.
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