singlelife Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Come on ladies. Weigh in. Even though women like to be independent they like a man who will take charge and even argue with them from time to time. 1
CarrieT Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Some of us do and some of us don't. Why be so polarized in your thinking - believing it is an absolute for every woman? 1
Author singlelife Posted October 12, 2012 Author Posted October 12, 2012 Some of us do and some of us don't. Why be so polarized in your thinking - believing it is an absolute for every woman? That's why I am asking and seeing what a lot of ladies say.
CarrieT Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 That's why I am asking and seeing what a lot of ladies say. What difference does it make? You will get a lot of different answers that will point you in both directions; that some do and some don't. I am in a D/s relationship but my Master and I don't argue. I am a strong and independent woman but as we have the same philosophies and ideals, there is no reason to argue. 1
GirlontheLam Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Come on ladies. Weigh in. Even though women like to be independent they like a man who will take charge and even argue with them from time to time. Yes and no. It depends on the woman. Personally, I like a little bit of debate in some situations. I am also a semi-Alpha female at work. This means I like to "take a break from making decisions" sometimes. So I like partners that take on that role sometimes. It is mostly about give and take. Very few people want a partner that is 100% anything. 1
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Come on ladies. Weigh in. Even though women like to be independent they like a man who will take charge and even argue with them from time to time. If I said otherwise, someone would know I was full of bs. Although sometimes it's REALLY frustrating..but I am kind of perverse and seem to like doing things the hard way and struggle.
NoMoreJerks Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Come on ladies. Weigh in. Even though women like to be independent they like a man who will take charge and even argue with them from time to time. No - I don't like arguments. I do like being led sometimes, but I also like doing the leading sometimes. I don't want a doormat, but I also don't want a douchebag who never pays attention to what I want. 2
threebyfate Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Oh sure, the best kind of man is one who slaps me around, putting me into my place, three steps behind him at all times. 3
phineas Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Come on ladies. Weigh in. Even though women like to be independent they like a man who will take charge and even argue with them from time to time. Who wants to date a lazy bitch? LOL! Seriously, i'll tell her what to do in the bedroom but if I gotta decide where we are going & she has to start arguments in order to feel like a woman? Nah, sounds like one of those Japanese robot sex slaves with some malware installed. no thanks. 3
threebyfate Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 he said dominant but didn't say abusive.All dominant men are abusive and so hot that way!
MonsterMash Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Oh sure, the best kind of man is one who slaps me around, putting me into my place, three steps behind him at all times. Can I buy you a drink? :D
threebyfate Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Can I buy you a drink? :D No, you're not abusive enough. 3
MonsterMash Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 No, you're not abusive enough. Maybe I hide it well. Hahaha 1
threebyfate Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Maybe I hide it well. HahahaI only like abusive, dominant men. Go away.
MonsterMash Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 i don't understand what you're talking about. Shes being sarcastic. But not able to understand sarcasm it seems.
nessaaa Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I don't like men that are not dominant. I like a guy who steps up and takes charge. If We're on a stormy day, and we pull up for gas n I'm the one driving.. I expect him to get out and fill the tank. What kind of man makes a girl go out in the cold to fill the tank in the freeezing cold? Not saying that girls are helpless an can't handle the cold but I think the man should step up and do it. seen this scenerio before and I wanted to throw a snow ball at that pussy loser guy sitting in the car, I think it looks kinna odd too when a girl is driving and the guy in the passenger seat.. kinna makes the guy look weak.
yongyong Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 Normal guys don't mind doing that. Would it be against 'men and women are equal', if the guy ask you to make a sandwich when you guys get home since you are women? I respect women who understand their roles. I don't like men that are not dominant. I like a guy who steps up and takes charge. If We're on a stormy day, and we pull up for gas n I'm the one driving.. I expect him to get out and fill the tank. What kind of man makes a girl go out in the cold to fill the tank in the freeezing cold? Not saying that girls are helpless an can't handle the cold but I think the man should step up and do it. seen this scenerio before and I wanted to throw a snow ball at that pussy loser guy sitting in the car, I think it looks kinna odd too when a girl is driving and the guy in the passenger seat.. kinna makes the guy look weak.
Quiet Storm Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 I like dominance in the bedroom, but equality in public and in front of the kids. Basically, a dominant man but one that knows when I like it like that. 2
yongyong Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 I meant normal guys do things that's dirty and requires more physical labor for their girl. normal guys don't do all the driving. they share the driving.
phineas Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 I don't like men that are not dominant. I like a guy who steps up and takes charge. If We're on a stormy day, and we pull up for gas n I'm the one driving.. I expect him to get out and fill the tank. What kind of man makes a girl go out in the cold to fill the tank in the freeezing cold? Not saying that girls are helpless an can't handle the cold but I think the man should step up and do it. seen this scenerio before and I wanted to throw a snow ball at that pussy loser guy sitting in the car, I think it looks kinna odd too when a girl is driving and the guy in the passenger seat.. kinna makes the guy look weak. I agree. That is why I sit in the back seat when I make her drive. And when I drive she goes in the trunk, because my pimp-hand gets sore on long trips.
nessaaa Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 i'd go out in the cold to get gas but what in the hell is wrong with both sharing the driving? i'm just a pussy loser guy. I'm not really sure how I feel about it or why I think it looks odd.
mortensorchid Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 You would think that, wouldn't you? That's a traditional role (aside from the specific D/Master relationship mentioned in this thread) of man being the dominant and the woman being the submissive. Things have changed in the world, but what I don't get is the fact that sometimes you do what you are told and they still aren't happy. Bend, they're angry. Defy, they're angry still. You can't make anyone happy anymore. That's why I gave up. 1
NoMoreJerks Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 You would think that, wouldn't you? That's a traditional role (aside from the specific D/Master relationship mentioned in this thread) of man being the dominant and the woman being the submissive. Things have changed in the world, but what I don't get is the fact that sometimes you do what you are told and they still aren't happy. Bend, they're angry. Defy, they're angry still. You can't make anyone happy anymore. That's why I gave up. Yeah - I've certainly had the "damned if you do, damned if you don't" vibe from my ex. 1
HopelessRomantic76 Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 A man should be the dominant one in a relationship if i feel i have to lead or be an equal and do what he dpoes i feel like im with a child not a man 1
NoMoreJerks Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 Really? I'm 40 and I am willing to bet that my GFs have only been the driver 5 - 10 times in my life. If I wasn't driving, it was due to me being physical ill. My friends are also the driver 99% of the time too. I have never had a GF complain to me about being in the passenger seat. They seem to enjoy playing DJ, doing their make up, etc. I never thought this could be an issue or it was a power thing until I read your post. I am driving and there are plenty of women who prefer it that way. I don't mind if he drove all the time -- as long as it wasn't for any particular reason (for example, thinking that women don't know how to drive, or that they shouldn't drive, etc.). I rather enjoy being in the passenger seat and turning on the music, etc. Also, I am one of those people who can't do multiple things at the same time -- like driving and listening, so I am not a good conversationalist when driving.
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