singlelife Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I mean when it comes to a relationship. Some of my female friends say they would be leary of DATING a guy like me because I have sex with a few ladies. But if I were in a relationship it wouldn't be like that. Just asking.
january2011 Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I wouldn't say "scared." I'd say "wary." I'm not a fan of multi-dating and I'm definitely not a fan of guys who sleep with multiple women concurrently. To be very honest with you, I probably wouldn't allow it to get to the stage of having a relationship talk. As soon as I knew that you were in multiple FWB arrangements, I'd run far away. I think it's fair enough to have had a few sexual partners in your past, and in my age range, I'd probably expect that, but having a few women on the go currently, no way. 4
Ross MwcFan Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I mean when it comes to a relationship. Some of my female friends say they would be leary of DATING a guy like me because I have sex with a few ladies. But if I were in a relationship it wouldn't be like that. Just asking. I bet most women must see Incels like me as a really good catch then. 1
iris219 Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I wouldn't be scared. I'd think you were kinda gross and you wouldn't be my type. 1
MonsterMash Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 (edited) OP.....never discuss numbers. Then you won't get the judgment from the women. If they push the issue...do what I do. I say "Ive only ever made love to three women that I was in a committed relationship with." Which for me...is not a lie. So long as they never ask how many i've f'ked....its all peachy. Edited October 12, 2012 by MonsterMash
kae Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 maybe these women youre sleeping with dont value themselves, but what does that say about you?? if they are cheap; you are cheap. i dont want a man who sleeps around.. i want a clean honourable man. the kind no one can have.. so ya to me.. id ignore you. 1
threebyfate Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I mean when it comes to a relationship. Some of my female friends say they would be leary of DATING a guy like me because I have sex with a few ladies. But if I were in a relationship it wouldn't be like that. Just asking.No doubt you do scare me.
phineas Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I mean when it comes to a relationship. Some of my female friends say they would be leary of DATING a guy like me because I have sex with a few ladies. But if I were in a relationship it wouldn't be like that. Just asking. My question is how do they know you are sleeping around? Do walk around with one of those ticket dispensers they have at the butchers as a belt buckle? I either have a GF or I don't. That's all they get out of me because it really isn't any of their damn business.
yongyong Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 LOL you mean you like socially retarded guys? It's like I say I want a pretty girl with sociable character but I won't be attracted to her if she ever had a cum on her mouth. I wouldn't be scared. I'd think you were kinda gross and you wouldn't be my type.
jcrew11 Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 Bottom line, women want monogamous sexual relationship and do not want to be cheated on. Women don't want their hearts broken. If you are serious about a woman and want to prove you are interested in dating her and being only with her, then stop sleeping with other women and just prove your committment to monogamy by courting her and showing her you can go a week or a month without sleeping with other women.
Jennifer89 Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 I would expect that you may be having sex with a woman on occasion if you are single, but it is the idea of several woman at a time I would find off-putting & would question that man having commitment issues. 1
Author singlelife Posted October 13, 2012 Author Posted October 13, 2012 I wouldn't say "scared." I'd say "wary." I'm not a fan of multi-dating and I'm definitely not a fan of guys who sleep with multiple women concurrently. To be very honest with you, I probably wouldn't allow it to get to the stage of having a relationship talk. As soon as I knew that you were in multiple FWB arrangements, I'd run far away. I think it's fair enough to have had a few sexual partners in your past, and in my age range, I'd probably expect that, but having a few women on the go currently, no way. Interesting that women feel this way. Because sometmes women date others when they meet someone they like. It really shouldn't matter.
irin Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 not "fear" just put off by promiscuity. i dont date promiscuous people. 1
silvermercy Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 I wouldn't say "scared" but "put off" and even "grossed out". I don't date promiscuous men because they have developed a pattern of sleeping around with no commitment. It's the equivalent of a slut. And most women don't want to date a manho. Because they're risking being just another number in a long list of partners.
MrCastle Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 What women say and what they respond to are often very different things. If your thread asked "do women date players or jerks?" every answer would be "no I only date nice guys". We both know that's often not the case. In my experiences, the guys who are seen as not being able to get women continue to not get women, and those that are known to sleep around are often the ones with the most success. Save the "it only works on girls with low self esteem" stuff; most women want men that are desired by other women.
silvermercy Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 What women say and what they respond to are often very different things. If your thread asked "do women date players or jerks?" every answer would be "no I only date nice guys". We both know that's often not the case. In my experiences, the guys who are seen as not being able to get women continue to not get women, and those that are known to sleep around are often the ones with the most success. Save the "it only works on girls with low self esteem" stuff; most women want men that are desired by other women. The ones who have more success (excluding famous hunky celebs) are those who know what to say and what to do to pull the strings of many women. That doesn't make them naturally desirable by default. Only for a short-while where the gullible woman is blinded by his attention. I have never heard any woman in my entire life consciously pursuing a date with a "player". 1
iris219 Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 What women say and what they respond to are often very different things. If your thread asked "do women date players or jerks?" every answer would be "no I only date nice guys". We both know that's often not the case. In my experiences, the guys who are seen as not being able to get women continue to not get women, and those that are known to sleep around are often the ones with the most success. Save the "it only works on girls with low self esteem" stuff; most women want men that are desired by other women. When I first started dating my ex he told me he hadn’t dated or slept with anyone in a year and a half. When I found this out, I was in love. I have so much respect for a man who can be on his own and doesn’t need to stick it in every attractive girl he meets. And my ex was by no means a "nice guy." There is nothing more attractive to me than a man with self-control and self-respect. I have no patience for men who sleep around. I am grossed out by them and feel no sexual attraction to them whatsoever. Also, a guy desired by women is not the same thing as a guy who has a harem of women he's having sex with.
yongyong Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 After reading some comments by women on this thread, some gullible and Beta guys are going to think 'oh I've only had couple sexual relationships in my life. I haven't gotten laid for a while. I didn't know women would find it attractive!' Then, they meet women and tell her that he doesn't sleep around, he is loyal, he haven't had sex for a while and she is the only girl he is talking right now. What would happen? Guys, don't come back and bitch about how these women are liars. it's your fault
iris219 Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 After reading some comments by women on this thread, some gullible and Beta guys are going to think 'oh I've only had couple sexual relationships in my life. I haven't gotten laid for a while. I didn't know women would find it attractive!' Then, they meet women and tell her that he doesn't sleep around, he is loyal, he haven't had sex for a while and she is the only girl he is talking right now. What would happen? Guys, don't come back and bitch about how these women are liars. it's your fault There's a difference between men who don't sleep with a lot of women because they are picky and/or sex actually means something to them and those who can't get laid because women don't find them attractive.
yongyong Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 You mean men who are attractive enough to attract other women but who choose to sleep with only few? and at the same time, they should know how to treat you on bed? I guess both gender wants someone who is attractive and at the same time, who is Pure...... that's why I'd like to find a mormon girl. I can't marry a girl who's been blowing guys since teenagers (which is average) At least I won't complain if she is not experienced on bed and doesn't know how to flirt with guys. There's a difference between men who don't sleep with a lot of women because they are picky and/or sex actually means something to them and those who can't get laid because women don't find them attractive.
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