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I need to stop doing this. Maybe I say something in a tone that I later think about as giving off the wrong impression, or maybe I write something that as I read it later sounds like the opposite of what I was feeling.

 

I'm in love with someone, but everytime I write her, a few hours later I will go back and read what I wrote, and smack myself in the head.

 

I blow opportunities. When I think I'm losing her, and she writes back- giving me the perfect chance to say how I feel, I write back non chalontly as if I'm talkin to a coworker, at the time thinking that our convo will continue...

 

But, I forget that I 'lost' her, and I'm in a process of trying to get her back, so really the ball is in my court to make every letter or convo count.....

 

Well I am just venting, I wish I could "undo" or "unsend" and type it over like we used to..

 

I really hate that emails are so concrete like this. I think they need to bring the "unsend" option back :rolleyes:

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Ha a majority of people do this. It's just emotional thinking. Don't stress it.

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Focus more on phone calls and the time spent together rather than online, texts and emails. Words can jump off the page a certain way and be taken out of context, or seem non personal, monotone too.

 

Have faith and trust. Is she giving you reasons to worry that this won't work out? Why do you feel insecure.

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Focus more on phone calls and the time spent together rather than online, texts and emails. Words can jump off the page a certain way and be taken out of context, or seem non personal, monotone too.

 

Have faith and trust. Is she giving you reasons to worry that this won't work out? Why do you feel insecure.

 

Well I'm sort of trying to prove my love to her at the moment and she isn't believing me. The more I try, the bigger a hole I dig.

 

Ughhh!!! I'm just so bad at communicating. She's not really giving any reason, it's me who's thinking of reasons. And in doing that, was maybe turnin her off. That's the irony. All I had to do was... nothing! She liked me already. But I felt this urgency that I had to do "something". So I tried doing "something", and end up saying things that make it sound like I really don't like her.

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Ha a majority of people do this. It's just emotional thinking. Don't stress it.

 

True, although I only seem to find them in internet forums.. haha

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