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My boyfriend keeps trying to get me to do a threesome with him. He says that I can choose who the third person is, but I am just not comfortable with the whole situation. It seems like every time we hang out he asks me about having a threesome, and then gets mad at me when I tell him I'm uncomfortable with the idea. What do I do to help him understand how I feel about this?

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Ask him if he will Double Team you with a guy you choose.

(if he is white and you talk about bringing a black guy, then it will shut him up)

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Tell him you'll do a threesome if you get to choose the guy. :laugh:

 

Seriously though, don't let him coerce you into doing something you're not comfortable with. If he genuinely cares about you, he'll drop the subject if he sees that it's definitely not something you'd be into.

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Sounds like he's not respecting your boundaries. As a boyfriend he should learn to accept no unfortunately he's the kind who needs to taught a lesson.

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"The answer is NO. Quit asking me about it, my mind is not going to change and if you can't respect that you can go"

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Tell him that you said no, you aren't going to change your mind, and that every time he asks you he is disrespecting your feelings.

 

And consider whether you really want to stay with this guy. The way he keeps asking you is not respectful.

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My boyfriend keeps trying to get me to do a threesome with him. He says that I can choose who the third person is, but I am just not comfortable with the whole situation. It seems like every time we hang out he asks me about having a threesome, and then gets mad at me when I tell him I'm uncomfortable with the idea. What do I do to help him understand how I feel about this?

Dump his sick ass. :sick: My ex did the same. Trust me, nothing will change. It won't change. He won't stop asking. Even if you tell him NO, END OF STORY.

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Tell him you'll do a threesome if you get to choose the guy. :laugh:

Bad idea unless she is up for it. Bluffing is never a good idea. He will bluff equally and say he doesn't mind doing with a guy if she wants that, as long as she accepts doing it with a girl. Then OP will say, no, not really, I don't want to do it with a guy (unless she really wants to). And if she says ok, let's do it with a guy then, he might be willing to try it , in order to get his threesome with a female. Some guys will go to ANY length to get the threesome. They are obsessed with it (my ex was). My ex told me he would be open to doing MMF threesome if I would do a MFF threesome. I said I was not interested in MMF, and at first said that I was uncomfortable with MFF threesome, then told him NO, didn't want to do it. He kept getting mad at me, threatening to dump me unless I did it, all his texts and calls and conversations in person were about that, EVEN after I had said no... I dumped him and went NC.

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My boyfriend keeps trying to get me to do a threesome with him.

 

Don't do it. What he's basically doing is asking for a permission to cheat on you.

 

What do I do to help him understand how I feel about this?

 

Tell him your choice for the 3rd person is a man.

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who does he think he is?

hugh hefner?

note the hefner doesn't get mad

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It seems to me that he is trying to get rid of you.

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