kare bear Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 My boyfriend keeps trying to get me to do a threesome with him. He says that I can choose who the third person is, but I am just not comfortable with the whole situation. It seems like every time we hang out he asks me about having a threesome, and then gets mad at me when I tell him I'm uncomfortable with the idea. What do I do to help him understand how I feel about this?
yongyong Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Ask him if he will Double Team you with a guy you choose. (if he is white and you talk about bringing a black guy, then it will shut him up) 2
Avulare Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Tell him you'll do a threesome if you get to choose the guy. Seriously though, don't let him coerce you into doing something you're not comfortable with. If he genuinely cares about you, he'll drop the subject if he sees that it's definitely not something you'd be into.
xpaperxcutx Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Sounds like he's not respecting your boundaries. As a boyfriend he should learn to accept no unfortunately he's the kind who needs to taught a lesson. 1
veggirl Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 "The answer is NO. Quit asking me about it, my mind is not going to change and if you can't respect that you can go" 1
Quiet Storm Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Tell him that you said no, you aren't going to change your mind, and that every time he asks you he is disrespecting your feelings. And consider whether you really want to stay with this guy. The way he keeps asking you is not respectful.
NoMoreJerks Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 My boyfriend keeps trying to get me to do a threesome with him. He says that I can choose who the third person is, but I am just not comfortable with the whole situation. It seems like every time we hang out he asks me about having a threesome, and then gets mad at me when I tell him I'm uncomfortable with the idea. What do I do to help him understand how I feel about this? Dump his sick ass. My ex did the same. Trust me, nothing will change. It won't change. He won't stop asking. Even if you tell him NO, END OF STORY. 1
NoMoreJerks Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Tell him you'll do a threesome if you get to choose the guy. Bad idea unless she is up for it. Bluffing is never a good idea. He will bluff equally and say he doesn't mind doing with a guy if she wants that, as long as she accepts doing it with a girl. Then OP will say, no, not really, I don't want to do it with a guy (unless she really wants to). And if she says ok, let's do it with a guy then, he might be willing to try it , in order to get his threesome with a female. Some guys will go to ANY length to get the threesome. They are obsessed with it (my ex was). My ex told me he would be open to doing MMF threesome if I would do a MFF threesome. I said I was not interested in MMF, and at first said that I was uncomfortable with MFF threesome, then told him NO, didn't want to do it. He kept getting mad at me, threatening to dump me unless I did it, all his texts and calls and conversations in person were about that, EVEN after I had said no... I dumped him and went NC.
Negative Nancy Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 My boyfriend keeps trying to get me to do a threesome with him. Don't do it. What he's basically doing is asking for a permission to cheat on you. What do I do to help him understand how I feel about this? Tell him your choice for the 3rd person is a man.
darkmoon Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 (edited) who does he think he is? hugh hefner? note the hefner doesn't get mad Edited October 12, 2012 by darkmoon
Later82012 Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 It seems to me that he is trying to get rid of you.
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