Riggers Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 Hey there, I'm a bit puzzled. I met this real good looking girl out one night and I got her number. A few days had passed before I texted her as her if she would be interested in catch up for a few drinks. She said yes, where a and when. I sugested 1 nyt but she said it didn't suit den suggested the next day and she said yes. The morning of the day we were going to meet up she cancled said she had a cold. She texted me later the same day and said that she hopes i wasn't mad and so invited me round to her flat for dinner with her and her house mates. Of course I went, it was a bit tough but I taught we conected. She informed me prior to dinner that she would have to leave to meet up with her friends, and I wasn't going to stand in her way. She suggested we should meet up again. I suggested a movie she responds that she has already plans but we should realy do it next week. I'm head over heels for her and would wait. She appears to be a great person but is she afraid to tell me to stop and walk away.
Imajerk17 Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 (edited) Your mistake was meeting her for dinner w her friends instead of rescheduling to see her one-one. No worries because if you keep putting yourself out there, you'll meet someone else. At least you got a free meal out of it too. Edited October 11, 2012 by Imajerk17
todreaminblue Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 Hey there, I'm a bit puzzled. I met this real good looking girl out one night and I got her number. A few days had passed before I texted her as her if she would be interested in catch up for a few drinks. She said yes, where a and when. I sugested 1 nyt but she said it didn't suit den suggested the next day and she said yes. The morning of the day we were going to meet up she cancled said she had a cold. She texted me later the same day and said that she hopes i wasn't mad and so invited me round to her flat for dinner with her and her house mates. Of course I went, it was a bit tough but I taught we conected. She informed me prior to dinner that she would have to leave to meet up with her friends, and I wasn't going to stand in her way. She suggested we should meet up again. I suggested a movie she responds that she has already plans but we should realy do it next week. I'm head over heels for her and would wait. She appears to be a great person but is she afraid to tell me to stop and walk away. If you are head over heels see how next week goes....one on one time like im a jerk said but forget the free meal part adn the part where he said you should have had one on one time you still can......th eonly way you can really get to know someone is to spend time with them one on one i dont mean on top of each othr but enjoying somethign that you like doing together...movies do not allow for conversation people behind you or in from of you at the movie theatres tend to get pissed off when you talk........smilin....so go into the outdoors where there is lots to see.....can help conversation a side walk cafe relaxed ambience to let the creative conversations flow, ice creams in the park on a spring day.a picnic on the grass in autumn...by the water chilling also calming....a juice bar where you both try something really different....hot chocolate when its winter and windy but blue skies...feed the ducks they need sustenance to entertain...heaps of places where you can feel alive and comfortable.....do a day time date.......let the hours roll on.....because they do ..you will have fun........deb
40 Fonzarelli Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Usually when she intriduces to her friends real quick, she is lukewarm with you and wants her friends' opinions.
todreaminblue Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Usually when she intriduces to her friends real quick, she is lukewarm with you and wants her friends' opinions. As a woman i feel that might be true in some circumstances but not in others it is impossible to tell how warm she is or not...unless you fly solo when going out you are normally in the company of friends when you meet someone warmth towards someone doesnt really have to involve a social setting if you feel it you feel it no matter what setting you are in..i dont do lukewarm as a woman.....with friends or without setting changes nothing.and i never show how hot i am under that collar of mine...i am told my eyes tell though ...so i am getting an eye transplant....deb
Author Riggers Posted October 21, 2012 Author Posted October 21, 2012 all went well at the cinema, we were early for the film and so we had a great chat. I went the step and told her what she means to me and she stills talk to me . onwards and upwards! 1
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