sghffdmc Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 If you saw my other thread, you would know my ex broke up with me on Monday. I was pretty devastated that night, as well as all day Tuesday, but I've been better today. Still had some breakdowns, but I have the right mindset and I am making progress. I obviously know it's going to take time, though. But... Of course, Tuesday morning I wake up to an email notifying me that my package had been shipped. I had no clue what I had ordered until I clicked on it. It's a necklace that I had ordered for my ex about two months ago and I guess it took forever to ship and I had forgotten about it. Of course it ships the day after we break up.... Anyways, I'm not sure what to do with it when it arrives. I'm thinking about just dropping it off at her house, because after all I don't want to just throw it away and waste my money and I know she really wanted it. I can't return it. Plus, it's not like it was a bad break up or anything like that. Here's the link to the thread if you want to read that: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/351291-how-am-i-supposed-get-over-her
a.b Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 I have the same problem, and i'd say no. But then mine is just a teddy that cost me 20 quid, just gonna give it to mys sister haha.
dreamstate83 Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 (edited) I had the same problem with an $800.00 bracelet I spent a long time saving for little by little. In the end, I kept it. I look at it every day as a reminder. If she were the one for me, she'd be around to wear it. It's a really good reminder Edited October 11, 2012 by dreamstate83
Jack32 Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 If you are considering trying to fix things with her maybe keep it for the right moment. If not why give it to her? Just give it to someone else or keep it for now.
Avulare Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Why not just send it back to the seller? Absolutely do not give it to her, since she'll probably just think you're trying to get back with her. I wouldn't recommend keeping it either, since having it around will only remind you of her and slow the healing. If I was in this situation I'd either return it and get a refund or sell it myself.
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