1slobalt12 Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 Okay so im going to try and keep this story as short as i possibly can so i can get to the point. Me and my ex dated for two years when she decided to break up with me last november stating she just wanted to focus on her self, etc but still wanted to be friends. I told her that i couldnt be friends and went into NC. She would contact be about once a week but after about 2 months she got the hint and stopped. Fast foward to May of this year my ex contacts me asking to talk about us and that she has alot she wants to say and apologize for, I agreed to talk to her and in the process she apologized for everything she believed she did wrong and ll the mistakes she made with our relationship, wanted to correct them and get back together. At first i was unsure if i was okay with this and told her so. After about a week or two of talking with her we ended up getting back together and things were going really well, she even talked about having kids with me and wanting to spend her life with me. Then a month later we got into our first fight since getting back together (it wasnt even that big or over anything that important, pretty stupid actually). Because of this she said she is unsure of us being together because in her own words "relationships shouldnt be this hard". This happened right before i was to go out of country for a week so we decided to talk when i got back, while out of country i was told she had a profile on a dating site. I confronted her about this and she told me her friend made it for her for fun and was only talking to people casually, in response i asked her to delete it since i didnt find it funny and that its a dating website. So i get back from being out of country and she decideds to end it with me. Not even a month after she ends it with me i was told that on facebook she was in a relationship again ( i just dismissed it thinking that it was ment to get back to me). So the other day i came across a picture of her and her new boyfriend and decided to tell one of my close friends about it, who then told me he saw them recently and that when she saw him she turned and kissed her new bf, so my friend ignore her and walked passed. as soon as he walked passed her she turned around and said hello to him but my friend just kept ignoring her. I have kept NC this whole time and plan to keep it as i want to get over my feelings for her but i just cant understand how you go from wanting to have kids with a person then a month later being with someone else. I personally feel by her action she is trying to indirectly hurt me. sorry for the essay wanted to get the story across with all the facts so it would be easier to understand
CptSaveAho Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 (edited) Its called "FUTURE FAKING" guys typically do this to girls to get laid or even use them... It looks really lame when guys are the victim of this... it means they have no balls and fall for anything a girl tells them. Edited October 11, 2012 by CptSaveAho
Chi townD Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I have kept NC this whole time and plan to keep it as i want to get over my feelings for her but i just cant understand how you go from wanting to have kids with a person then a month later being with someone else. I personally feel by her action she is trying to indirectly hurt me. Simple!!! Because she's bat sh*t crazy. 1
Author 1slobalt12 Posted October 12, 2012 Author Posted October 12, 2012 Simple!!! Because she's bat sh*t crazy. Thats pretty much the conclusion i have come to 1
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