Mirz_World Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 Hey Forums, I got a relationship which has so many questions yet very few answers.To start off my ex girlfriend and I were together for 5 years, started off in HS she was a senior and I was a sophomore.Around our 2 year anniversary we decided to have a son together, so we had our son and things were going pretty good*we*started living together and was planning on a marriage but then around time our so was 2 we got into really big argument that involved yelling and was pretty intense.When that happened she broke up with me for about a month and we were figuring out if we could still be together or not,but eventually she decided to come back and be with me because she wanted to work it out and stay as a family. So we were a happy family until June of this year in which I found out that she was seeing some other guy while she was working at her job. I was devastated when I found out but I told her that we could we could work things out and I could forgive her, but when I said that she said that we need to take a break. So we so we were on a break for 1 month untilI found out that she was still talking to this guy when she told me she wasn't leave me for him, she was really upset that she got caught in a lie and decided that we shouldnt be together anymore. So 2 months after that happened she pulled me aside and told me that she miss being a family and wanted to work things out again but this time she wanted to do it for herself and not just because of my son so she offer to do couples counciling. After that talk we got hey bit closer than we were before and potentially planning our future together still and have many talks about having another child together when we are together. For my birthday her and I got really drunk and ended up having sex that night and the day after she told me that she didn't feel drunk when we were doing that and her attitude towards me was really different like she wanted she was starting to love me again. Things took the 180 after that know everytime I go to work she kisses me goodbye and we sleep in the same bed together now but here's the problem she says still not sure if she's wants to have a relationship with me still. She stopped talking to the guy does she met at her job( I know forsure I have my ways) but now she talks to one of her old HS ex boyfriends I ask her what's going on and she tells me that it's nothing ,she not looking a new boyfriend and she isn't leaving me(<-?) for another guy. I just want insight of what's going on in her head and where is leading me..should I just quit and move on or give it another chance because she is a headstrong woman so seeing her come to me and tell I'm not sure if I don't want you in my life.
Author Mirz_World Posted October 12, 2012 Author Posted October 12, 2012 Is this way too confusing :/ I don't know what to do.
mammasita Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I think that if you feel the need to snoop and follow up on her to confirm that she isn't talking to this other man, then there is no viable relationship.
Author Mirz_World Posted October 12, 2012 Author Posted October 12, 2012 I snooped when we were on a break then I told her I snooped which led us to break it off. I have stopped and had no reason to snoop on her because I was starting to move and meet new people but after her talking to about us having a future still I decided to start building trust with her again, so no snooping cause I haven't gotten a reason to.
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