SMF Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 If the dumper is refusing contact after a break up- is he doing this for the benefit of the person that got dumped or bc they don't know how to deal with it?
Pained Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 It all depends. It could be either of the reasons you stated, it could be that the dumper found someone else, it could be that the dumper is sick of having communication with the dumpee. Each situation is different. My boyfriend wanted some "space", even though he told me he loved me and didn't want anyone else, and therefore we broke up...for two days. I left him alone for two days, although he continued to call me each of those days, and on the second day he told me he missed me and didn't want me to give up, and we got back together shortly after. However, I've also been in situations where I've either been dumped or dumped someone else, and never had contact with them again, thankfully.
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