yongyong Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 I've done hundreds of approaches at a bar. When I just started going there, it was very hard to communicate due to the environment. I had to adapt. I had to speak louder and faster. I had to catch their attention in couple sentences. Body language was very important. My real personality didn't matter if I couldn't hook them in 30 seconds. Now I can go up to a girl, make her laugh, tease her like a little sister and touch her here and there. I am able to to those because I approached ##### of girls. Now I am trying to approach girls during daytime since Bar is not a good place to find someone. I tried some but since I am not used to it, I am like beginning stage at a bar. One girl at a bar told me, 'you seem like you do this all the time since you are very good at it' I am sure she would be turned off if I told her 'well I hit on about 5 girls every time I go out. I go out twice a week so 10 girls a week?' Obviously, I am not dumb enough to say that. The thing is I would have to go through the same process to be good at daytime approach. What if I approach a girl, get nervous, mess up couple words and act little bit awkward? Would she think 'oh this guy is very genuine. he is adorable'? NO. I am sure she will get creeped out. Would she appreciate the fact that I am the type of guy who doesn't normally hit on girls in public? (yes, only if I was confident in cold approach) Then, what's the best way to get better? Approach Lots of Women. Would she like this history of approaching #### women? No. then What should I do? Keep my mouth shut about past approaches and just act like I am a naturally confident guy. (like you don't ask about how many guys she banged) It's like women want a guy who knows how to satisfy her sexually. how do you think he became good at it? I think I know what I should do and I won't be affected by women's opinion. I just wanted to share my thoughts and wanted to see what other Guys think.
oaks Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 No. then What should I do? Keep my mouth shut about past approaches and just act like I am a naturally confident guy. (like you don't ask about how many guys she banged) It's like women want a guy who knows how to satisfy her sexually. how do you think he became good at it? Just say it comes naturally. Or go for an obviously cheesy line like "it's easy to talk to someone as beautiful as you" (but only if you can make it clear that you're saying a stupid line - I doubt it would work if she thought you were saying it seriously).
TaraMaiden Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 10/week? Good... Question is... with this technique - are you getting any?
ThaWholigan Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 My friend keeps inviting me to the Daygame classes in London I digress - one thing I have learned is not to put too much thought into the outcome. Sometimes, it's better to just talk normally and casually - obviously it helps if you know how to be attractive on some level. Fuse the two. Regarding the sexual comment, you don't have to be experienced to be good at it
oaks Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 Regarding the sexual comment, you don't have to be experienced to be good at it Braggart! 1
Author yongyong Posted October 12, 2012 Author Posted October 12, 2012 Well, sex is not about pounding the sxit out of her You have to calibrate your penis, tongue and finger based on different individual's preference. Of course, To do that, you need enough experiences Regarding the sexual comment, you don't have to be experienced to be good at it
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