buzzie2 Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 There was a guy that I really liked and thought that he liked me back. I pursued him at first and got his number but he turned out to not be that into me. He never called me back and blew me off with excuses whenever I ran into him.So I stopped showing interest, and started seeing other guys. Now he is acting interested in me again. What should I do?
Titanwolf Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 No, I wouldn't. You're only given one chance to reject me. Fortunately, I haven't experienced that yet though. Dignity would state that it's a bad idea to accept someone after they reject you, unless they're willing to overcompensate for their previous rejection. 1
todreaminblue Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 There was a guy that I really liked and thought that he liked me back. I pursued him at first and got his number but he turned out to not be that into me. He never called me back and blew me off with excuses whenever I ran into him.So I stopped showing interest, and started seeing other guys. Now he is acting interested in me again. What should I do? Depends how you felt about this guy in the first place you could try if you had strong feelings for him I guess......you coudl ask him why he is interested when he wasnt before maybe there was a reason he held back....every body deserves to be heard...and if you care about him enough date him.....it also depends on the guy you are seeing or guys how into him or them are you......if you have worked through your feelings for the first guy then maybe you should leave that guy in the past and move on to the ones you do have feelings for....multi dating i couldnt do it....what do you feel in your heart?.....deb
fortyninethousand322 Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 No I wouldn't. And I'd probably wish them a great deal of ill.
missgangrene Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 There was a guy that I really liked and thought that he liked me back. I pursued him at first and got his number but he turned out to not be that into me. He never called me back and blew me off with excuses whenever I ran into him.So I stopped showing interest, and started seeing other guys. Now he is acting interested in me again. What should I do? It depends on why he rejected you. Example: if he'd just gotten out of a relationship and wasn't yet ready to date, then that's okay. But that's the only scenario I can think of where I could give the guy a pass for rejecting me the first time around. Anything else just screams you're the second choice, or you're an option being considered but not really wanted. 1
truth_seeker Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 As a man, I would entertain the idea and make a call based on what I wanted. 1) If I wanted only sex out of it, I would sleep with her then bail. 2) If I wanted a relationship, and she had a convincing reason why she rejected me in the first place, ie, "I was seeing someone else at the time" or "I was just out of relationship and wasn't ready to move on", then I could give her a chance. Any other bs, and I would tell her: "Thanks, but I'm seeing a great girl, and am very happy. Sorry." With a smile 1
River Rain Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 I think his behaviour is your answer. If he was blowing you off and making excuses the first time, he might not be very reliable or honest so I wouldn't give him a second chance.
Revolver Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 It's like that line "back then they didn't want me, now I'm hot..." Lol I'd probably sleep with her but never date
carhill Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 I stopped showing interest, and started seeing other guys. Now he is acting interested in me again. What should I do? Continue seeing other guys.
yongyong Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 We always assume Women want relationships from the get go which is very wrong. what do you want? are you ok just having fun with him and see how it goes?
Author buzzie2 Posted October 12, 2012 Author Posted October 12, 2012 I would like to be in serious, committed relationship. I think he rejected me because at the time he was a bit of a player, and I found out was dating a bunch of different women. Since he knew I was not the type of girl that wants a FWB's situation, and am a LTR girl that is why he rejected me. But now he seems to have matured and is looking for a LTR.
River Rain Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I would like to be in serious, committed relationship. I think he rejected me because at the time he was a bit of a player, and I found out was dating a bunch of different women. Since he knew I was not the type of girl that wants a FWB's situation, and am a LTR girl that is why he rejected me. But now he seems to have matured and is looking for a LTR. Just tread carefully. I'm a LTR girl too and we tend to take things more seriously. If you want to see if things will work with him, remember to always communicate what you want so that if he's still a player, at least you'll know sooner than later.
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