lunat1ccc Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 I met my girlfriend back in college back in '06, and we were in a relationship for about 1.5 years. We broke up in '09 due to various reasons. She felt that I never listened to her, she wanted to date other people, she felt i was too sensitive, etc. Towards the end of the break up, I felt like she wanted to hide our relationship from others, as she deleted all pictures, hid her relationship status, etc. I may be wrong, but it felt like she wanted to hide me from other potential guys that might have liked her. Fast forward to a couple months ago, we started talking about and things seemed to be going of well. I started dating her and we are back together now. However, lately, I feel like she's still trying to hide me from others (gut feeling) from her guy friends. She doesn't post any pictures or relationship statuses. She tells me it's because of her privacy and doesn't like other people knowing her business. However, my gut feeling tells me otherwise. What can I do to see if she's just keeping me around until someone better comes along? I feel like since she's "hiding" our relationship, other guys won't know she's in a relationship, etc. Anything I can do to test to see where she stands?
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 It's only been a couple months into a relationship that already failed once. Would you act this way if it were a new girl? She's either hiding something or she's not ready to commit fully. Ball's in your court, want to find out which one, you'll have to wait and see?
Liz2012 Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 sounds like you have a good connection but that communication might need work? some very long open chats to start with and then go from there?
CC12 Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 Do you two ever go out with her friends? If not, you might want to start trying to arrange some fun things you can all do together. Don't just tag along every time she goes out with her friends, though. It's okay once in a while but not every time. If her friends know about you, I think you can feel okay that she's not trying to hide you.
I am Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 I believe she is really trying to hide you... She is hiding something.. I've been in this situation before and it was so obvious but I did not believe my intuition... sorry for you.
wsr Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 How long did you not talk to eachother between breaking up and getting back to talking again?
flitzanu Posted October 24, 2012 Posted October 24, 2012 you know the last time i dated a girl that wanted to "hide" me from the social media in ways that you're discussing...was because she was still dating someone and lying to both of us. you're being hidden from her "friends" because she's not entirely single, that's why she doesn't want someone "knowing her business".
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