hukai_09 Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 I asked for this girls name till I got her number and started texting only to know that she has a BF for 3 yrs now.I liked her so I still communicated with her at least once a week. Now my question is that would it be proper for her to txt me if she has a BF?Is it possible that she likes me also her texts are not the yes/no type of reply but rather exploring types of questions like what are my hobbies,what are my talents and what are my talents.?Also he aways compliments me.I asked my buudies about it and they said that she looks like she likes me because I was just a stranger who got her number to which she was fond of entertaining but my only doubt is why am I always the one initiating or the first one to text?Well I really have no idea so please help! :)Thanks in advance!
ALoveStudent Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 If she has a bf, and she's texting you because she likes you, then keep in mind that she might just do the same thing to you if you were her bf. However, since you're the only person initiating then either A: She doesn't like you that way, or B: She's doesn't want to take responsibility for doing something she knows her bf might dissaprove of. In other words, she can honestly tell him that "Youre just some guy that keeps texting her". She wouldn't be lieing, but if in the future she breaks up with him for you, she could say that "things just happened..." Either way, I wouldn't get my hopes up. Sure you can keep talking to her, but unless you start talking to her in person, its likely that you'll just end up in the friend zone.
NateC Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 She's just being friendly honestly. Back off and avoid getting in the middle of the relationship. That's a can of worms you want to avoid opening.
Author hukai_09 Posted October 11, 2012 Author Posted October 11, 2012 thanks for the reply but we have talked to each other for about 4 times whenever we see each other on the way to school.And it I think it went well.. so really im confused.
yongyong Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 If you like her, wait for the moment like a crouching tiger...... Obviously, don't do any favor for her. you are not her BF. That is the best way to be friendzoned forever.
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