Is my uncle a sex fiend??

[Shaun-Dro]

Men age no better than women. Everyones skin sags, stretches, and gets gray hair.

This.

 

And greznog is the same kind of poster that applauds men dating younger, but when women date younger good looking guys apparently its because older men dont want these women . It couldnt be that good looking older women have options and can snag sexy young guys. People always have to turn any sort of age gap relationship into an insult towards women.

Men are not solely attracted to physical beauty. If that was the case, most guys wouldnt hold out for wives who bring a total package of attributes. And the fact is that plenty of smart guys dont simply go for a pretty face.

Im sorry, but only creepy scumbags go to the mall to hit on teenage jailbait who can be anywhere from 14 to 18 years old.

 

When Im in the mall, or simply out and about, I do sometimes see attractive teenage women's bodies. But once I see their face or behavior, and can acknowledge that they are under 20 (my cut off) or 18 (legal cutoff) I simply forget about those feelings as I dont pursue young girls...especially not ones who arent even in college.

 

Sorry OP...your uncle is a fvking loser and theres a reason your family dislikes him. Get a clue kid.

 

Listen, just because 20 is your cutoff point doesn't have to apply to other men. I'm not saying the OP's uncle is a winner, but he does a lot better with women of varying ages than these so-called know-it-alls that seem to frequent these threads.

[kaylan]

For the life of me, why can't you just focus on the fact that the OP's uncle just cheated on the woman he was with and smokes/sells weed to be good enough cause to dislike him? Why does it matter if he cheated with a teen or an old maid pushing the shopping cart? Cheating is cheating, period! Now lay off the age thing as the only cause to attack.

Its stupid of you to want to dismiss one of his crappy attributes simply because you relate to his crappy behavior.

 

The age thing matters as much as the cheating and drug crap. The guy is a loser and shouldnt be trolling for possibly underage teenage girls. From the sounds of the OP, it doesnt seem like this guy makes sure these girls are 17 or 18 before he talks to them and theres a good chance some of them are 15 and 16.

 

Im 26 and stay away from women under 20. Its weird how a dude would even want much to do with girls in their teens. I worked at young center last summer, and theres no way I could see myself hitting on silly 16 or 17 year old girls.

 

OPs uncle sounds like the typical older loser drug dealer around high school campus who tries to look cool to these immature girls because he has nothing of value to offer real women.

 

All of you need to grow up.

[olivec]

It's his confidence that's attracting them. There's nothing more appealing to a teen girl than an older man that knows how to approach them. At first, these girls may think, "he's a little old for me" but after a while they can't help but feel flattered at the attention and they wound up giving in, unlike the immature unwanted attention they receive from guys their age.

 

And clearly he's a true Casanova because you stated that he nails women in their 20s and 30s too. Your uncle is no fluke!

 

Bigkat, you need to stick with this guy and just benefit from what he does with the dames and discard his negative characteristics. You can, in time, make what you learn from him your own and become a better pickup artist. This will definitely improve your happiness level since women are defining it for you right now.

 

yup exactly and plus if these girls are bangin him them there hoes anyway so dont feel bad or weird. It only be bad if hes date raping them or dragging them down dark allies and stuff like that. if you suspect that happening you call the damn police fast. if hes just mackin than just go with the flow bro

[kaylan]

Listen, just because 20 is your cutoff point doesn't have to apply to other men. I'm not saying the OP's uncle is a winner, but he does a lot better with women of varying ages than these so-called know-it-alls that seem to frequent these threads.

Doing well with women of various ages is fine. WOMEN...NOT high school girls.

 

Get that straight...and understand why people think the guy is a loser. Btw, I have a hard time buying this thread. Because guy who does well with women of various ages...(good looking, well to do, quality women), wouldnt be trolling for high school girls and selling drugs.

 

A guy who does that is usually someone most WOMEN (mature women of age who know better) tend to avoid.

 

But its the internet. I take most things I read with a grain of salt.

 

PS - Lol @ the idea of some of you being fathers one day. Itll be hilarious if you dare try and keep your daughters from doing things with the type of guys you high five in the present day.

[threebyfate]

OPs uncle sounds like the typical older loser drug dealer around high school campus who tries to look cool to these immature girls because he has nothing of value to offer real women.

Weird how druggies love drug dealers who give out free drugs. Shocking, isn't it?

[kaylan]

Weird how druggies love drug dealers who give out free drugs. Shocking, isn't it?

I wouldnt be surprised if this was the case. When I was in high school, we knew of some older dealers in their 20s and 30s who would troll for young high school chicks. And sometimes the really slutty chicks with the habits wouldnt mind giving up their body in exchange for what they wanted.

 

Let the losers have each other. I doubt OPs uncle is pulling quality chicks. I wouldnt be surprised if he was trolling for typical subpar trashy ho chicks whod go for a bum like him. Seriously...in your 40s selling drugs to high school kids? Get a fvking life already. You arent in your teens and 20s anymore. Time to grow the hell up.

 

Doing anything remotely close to illegal when it comes to those under 18 is asking for a serious legal issue if you ever get jammed up with police. OP shouldnt have to ask whether he needs to stay away from this guy.

Edited October 16, 2012 by kaylan

[ThaWholigan]

I wouldnt be surprised if this was the case. When I was in high school, we knew of some older dealers in their 20s and 30s who would troll for young high school chicks. And sometimes the really slutty chicks with the habits wouldnt mind giving up their body in exchange for what they wanted.

 

Let the losers have each other. I doubt OPs uncle is pulling quality chicks. I wouldnt be surprised if he was trolling for typical subpar trashy ho chicks whod go for a bum like him. Seriously...in your 40s selling drugs to high school kids? Get a fvking life already. You arent in your teens and 20s anymore. Time to grow the hell up.

 

Doing anything remotely close to illegal when it comes to those under 18 is asking for a serious legal issue if you ever get jammed up with police. OP shouldnt have to ask whether he needs to stay away from this guy.

I agree - although it wasn't specified whether his uncle was actually selling weed to high school kids, just that he sells weed and happens to have sex with younger girls.

 

I don't rate his uncle at all, but he attracts women full stop. There could possibly be something that BigKat could learn from him, even if it is miniscule. Going by his posts on this forum, I don't really see him learning from anything else. I've tried to help, he doesn't listen.

 

BTW most pot-smokers I know deal it on the side. Even I used to sell to my friends.

[Shaun-Dro]

I wouldnt be surprised if this was the case. When I was in high school, we knew of some older dealers in their 20s and 30s who would troll for young high school chicks. And sometimes the really slutty chicks with the habits wouldnt mind giving up their body in exchange for what they wanted.

 

Let the losers have each other. I doubt OPs uncle is pulling quality chicks. I wouldnt be surprised if he was trolling for typical subpar trashy ho chicks whod go for a bum like him. Seriously...in your 40s selling drugs to high school kids? Get a fvking life already. You arent in your teens and 20s anymore. Time to grow the hell up.

 

Doing anything remotely close to illegal when it comes to those under 18 is asking for a serious legal issue if you ever get jammed up with police. OP shouldnt have to ask whether he needs to stay away from this guy.

 

Why do you continue to spew garbage for? I truly wonder why? No where in the OP's thread did he say that his uncle sells drugs to HS kids, did he? And the OP never said the girls he gets were quality. The OP stated that his uncle knows which kinds of girls to seek out. Obviously, the guy knows a thing or two that most men would kill to obtain.

[threebyfate]

Why do you continue to spew garbage for? I truly wonder why? No where in the OP's thread did he say that his uncle sells drugs to HS kids, did he? And the OP never said the girls he gets were quality. The OP stated that his uncle knows which kinds of girls to seek out. Obviously, the guy knows a thing or two that most men would kill to obtain.

Give away free drugs and you too can get laid.

[kaylan]

Why do you continue to spew garbage for? I truly wonder why? No where in the OP's thread did he say that his uncle sells drugs to HS kids, did he? And the OP never said the girls he gets were quality. The OP stated that his uncle knows which kinds of girls to seek out. Obviously, the guy knows a thing or two that most men would kill to obtain.

Huh?

 

Its not hard to get naive young girls to be interested in you. I just have morals and dont try to take advantage of those who arent on my mental level.

 

Sorry, I wouldnt kill to be like that guy.

[kaylan]

We were talking about attraction. A marriage or long term relationship requires more than just attraction. But show me one single guy who would not want nsa sex with the most gorgeous girl he has ever seen even if she doesn't have many other qualities outside of her physical appearance. Hell, even Your Godly Self has admitted you fell for a beautiful girl a couple of times even if she didn't fit your list of other criteria. If even You are guilty of it, then can you blame me for generalizing?

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/351212-sometimes-they-look-so-good-you-just-cant-say-no

Attraction is not simplistic for all men or women. Some men dont have nsa sex by choice ya know? The same way some women will be quick to sleep with a guy whos built like a greek god. Its dependent on the person not the gender.

 

Thats why its ignorant of you try and simplify what men find attraction as being one singular thing. Looks matter to both men and women, but its not the only thing that matters. Never has been, even for some folks who have nsa sex.

 

Btw, learn to read the OP in my other thread. I said I let a girl or two get away with murder because I was majorly attracted to them. Not because I was only attracted to their looks. And I didnt even mention simply looks myself. The girls I were referring to in my case had a lot more going for them then looks, and in my case, our mental click was a big reason why I stuck around for as long as I did.

 

No, you're wrong on that one. If kaylan says 20 is the cutoff point, then all us mortals have to agree and deal with it.

I said its the cutoff point for me. Unlike some men, I know to stay away from naive young women, and especially high school girls, who arent on my level mentally. I refuse to take advantage of someone who isnt on my level. I choose to love and protect women, not be a mindless horndog whos simply out for a screw no matter who I use in the process.

[2sunny]

Since he drinks and smokes weed - his maturity level (or IMMATURITY LEVEL) may very well be the same as a teenager.

 

His interest in gals that much younger is suspect and creepy - but he may be giving them drugs for sex and/or looking for gals to sell to.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

For the life of me, why can't you just focus on the fact that the OP's uncle just cheated on the woman he was with and smokes/sells weed to be good enough cause to dislike him? Why does it matter if he cheated with a teen or an old maid pushing the shopping cart? Cheating is cheating, period! Now lay off the age thing as the only cause to attack.

 

Shaun-Dro, you regularly attack women for the age thing yet your mad because I think someone 40+ hitting on teenage girls isn't right? You are a hypocrite.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Doing well with women of various ages is fine. WOMEN...NOT high school girls.

 

I also think a man that knows how to deal well with women of all ages knows the age appriopiate way to interact and behave with them. It doesn't always have to be sexual. Infact, it shouldn't always be sexual.

 

PS - Lol @ the idea of some of you being fathers one day. Itll be hilarious if you dare try and keep your daughters from doing things with the type of guys you high five in the present day

 

They don't think about that right now. Neither do they think about the kind of things they say and how it applies to their own mothers. It's like they think their fathers should be banging 17 year olds while their mom's deserve to shrivel up and die so that their dad's can have some "fun".

[Disenchantedly Yours]

I said its the cutoff point for me. Unlike some men, I know to stay away from naive young women, and especially high school girls, who arent on my level mentally. I refuse to take advantage of someone who isnt on my level. I choose to love and protect women, not be a mindless horndog whos simply out for a screw no matter who I use in the process.

 

I totally heart you for that Kaylan. I actually think one of the things a lot of young girls/women miss out on our older non-family members men to act as mentors in a non-sexual manner. When only male family members treat women with respect, it's kind of like saying that women only deserve respect by extenion of being related to a man.

 

There is so much a young girl/woman could learn from a man that isn't in her family if he looked at her more as someone to teach and mentor in a fatherly/uncle way instead of always just perving on anything with a vagina. Just like a lot of guys already do with young men.

 

I believe this is one reason why a lot of women don't understand men and don't know how to always develop healthy relationships with them. Because not many men take an interest in them unless it's sexual. And that hurts both men and women sometimes. I'm not saying every guy needs to mentor every young woman or girl. But if there was a little more men that interacted with young girls as mentors, as you've implied, then maybe there wouldn't be the stereotype of some men as just being horndog predators and we would have less concerns over male teaches and the likes of that. ...hope that makes sense. I personally think that something is lacking in relationships between men and women and if older men where more eager to be mentors for younger girls and women, that would help with some of the current issues we have with the genders..Certainly not all issues, but some.

[kaylan]

^What?

 

Are you even friends with women? I mean like real friends? Because in my experience I have women who respect my opinion and guidance without wanting to jump my bones. Its a silly and untrue idea that women only respect the advice of those they wanna screw.

 

Come on now.

Sick burn

 

The thread title actually says:

 

Sometimes they look so good, you just cant say no.

 

Or maybe when you typed "look so good" you meant "are so attractive in a non-physical way" and I'm too bad at reading comprehension to understand something as obvious as that?

Um...is it hard to see that the title is simply a pull to read the thread? Or is it hard to figure out that the title is in direct relation to the M and Ms video? At the end of the day, I never have an example of me chasing a girl around simply because she looked good. There are many attractive women in the world, and many I see onn a daily basis, therefore it takes more than looks for a girl to hook me.

Edited October 16, 2012 by kaylan

[Shaun-Dro]

Since he drinks and smokes weed - his maturity level (or IMMATURITY LEVEL) may very well be the same as a teenager.

 

His interest in gals that much younger is suspect and creepy - but he may be giving them drugs for sex and/or looking for gals to sell to.

 

The last time I checked, grown adults smoked weed and drank and most of them were quite mature and financially successful, so get your facts straight before opening that hole in your face.

[CptObvious]

Who the hell is your uncle? Babe Ruth? How is he hitting all that good ****?

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Which is all nice and good but girls/women don't respect or listen to ( unrelated ) men they don't find sexually stimulating. In order for someone to be mentored there has to be a foundation.

 

That is completely false. There are a few men in my life that have been great mentors that were not family members that I was not sexually attracted to in the least. Several of them were bosses. I wish I was younger when I had that simliar kind of mentoring from a man that wasn't a family member. I think I could have learned a lot.

[ThaWholigan]

That is completely false. There are a few men in my life that have been great mentors that were not family members that I was not sexually attracted to in the least. Several of them were bosses. I wish I was younger when I had that simliar kind of mentoring from a man that wasn't a family member. I think I could have learned a lot.

Why do you even continue to persist debating with that poster DY? (Others too, why reply?)

 

FWIW I agree with your premise about "mentoring", I think more guys should do it. Perhaps the more they do so, the more they can in turn learn and even gain more maturity in the process.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

Why do you even continue to persist debating with that poster DY? (Others too, why reply?)

 

FWIW I agree with your premise about "mentoring", I think more guys should do it. Perhaps the more they do so, the more they can in turn learn and even gain more maturity in the process.

 

I don't really know but I am compelled anyway.

 

Nice to know another man agrees with my mentoring thing.

[threebyfate]

I don't really know but I am compelled anyway.

 

Nice to know another man agrees with my mentoring thing.

There's an ignore feature that collapses posts and while you can still see he's posted, you don't have to read them unless you deliberately uncollapse his posts.

 

When people deliberately bait like that, it gives them pleasure to evoke emotional responses from others. It's a form of control. Don't play into it.

[mario_C]

Since he drinks and smokes weed - his maturity level (or IMMATURITY LEVEL) may very well be the same as a teenager.

 

His interest in gals that much younger is suspect and creepy - but he may be giving them drugs for sex and/or looking for gals to sell to.

OK let's be clear. Smoking weed does NOT make you immature (as a United States president) or lazy (as a record-breaking Olympian) or dumb (like every creative artist you can name in every field). Neither does drinking, although doing too much of either can lead to immature behavior.

The issue is the underage sex, which yes, I totally agree, does show a lack of maturity and emotional intelligence. I believe sex/love partners need to have that maturity and EQ equilibrium, and when you're a middle aged person pursuing virgins and childish partners, then yes, you're sorely lacking in maturity.

Give away free drugs and you too can get laid.

 

I agree - although it wasn't specified whether his uncle was actually selling weed to high school kids, just that he sells weed and happens to have sex with younger girls.

 

I don't rate his uncle at all, but he attracts women full stop. There could possibly be something that BigKat could learn from him, even if it is miniscule. Going by his posts on this forum, I don't really see him learning from anything else. I've tried to help, he doesn't listen.

 

BTW most pot-smokers I know deal it on the side. Even I used to sell to my friends.

Hee. BigKat has a knack for finding terrible role models. I'm certain he's just a PUA and young girls are just more targets for him to practice on. It doesn't excuse him using a child for sex though, not once.

I remember loaning my friend some money after we shared a joint, and he commented, "I guess we just made a dope deal." That was a LONG time ago, Officer. BTW they just legalized medicinal marijuana in CT - it would be lovely to see y'all New Yorkers come up for our dispensaries and gay wedding ceremonies. /offtopic

[NYC-BigKat]

The last time I checked, grown adults smoked weed and drank and most of them were quite mature and financially successful, so get your facts straight before opening that hole in your face.

 

Thanks & my uncle sells weed to mostly adults at parties & stuff. He does a lot of underground parties u know & he's doing a halloween party in like 2 weeks & says they'r gonna be lots of cute girls just looking for a good time & he wants me to do some brushing up but I told him I'm not gonna do weed if he thinks I am & he said ok dont do it.

[mickleb]

Thanks & my uncle sells weed to mostly adults at parties & stuff. He does a lot of underground parties u know & he's doing a halloween party in like 2 weeks & says they'r gonna be lots of cute girls just looking for a good time & he wants me to do some brushing up but I told him I'm not gonna do weed if he thinks I am & he said ok dont do it.

 

Give the guy a medal?

 

May I just remind you, BK, that your title thread is 'Is my uncle a sex fiend??' I don't understand why you are surprised that some posters lean more towards answering that question with a 'yes' than a 'no'.