FitChick Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 No, he's a loser. Did you miss this bit? "My family wants nothing to do with him 'cause he likes to drink & smoke weed alot & he sells the weed." No decent woman would have anything to do with him. I bet he gets some girl pregnant.
danny in van Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 No, he's a loser. Did you miss this bit? "My family wants nothing to do with him 'cause he likes to drink & smoke weed alot & he sells the weed." No decent woman would have anything to do with him. I bet he gets some girl pregnant. what a simplistic definition! what u think this is the 1950s? lotsa people do this...and buying and selling is what the US was built upon. If he sold beer is that better to you? Or stocks?
skywriter Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 The fact that you posted to ask this question, implies that it makes you uncomfotable. It may be making you uncomfortable, because it doesn't seem appropriate. If it makes you feel this way, then those facts are enough to make it wrong for you. A 23 yr age difference means he could be the parent potentially, regardless of the fact he isn't. If he can't go home with these girls and speak to their family, then yea, he's hiding it in shame, because he knows he's wrong. 2
mario_C Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 I thought 18 was the statutory age in America, and definitely in NY State. Whatever the legality, a man in his 40s hitting on high school girls in the mall and selling them weed is sketchy, to put it mildly. I knew a guy like that working retail and it always made me want to take a shower, dealing with him. Hey OP, does your uncle drive a cab? Does he like old school metal? Maybe I know him... 2
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 13, 2012 Posted October 13, 2012 Skywriter has really given you some stellar advice OP. I think there is a reason this makes you uncomfortable. YOu know it's not completely legit and healthy. Ask yourself this: Do you want to be 40 hitting on 17 year olds and selling/doing pot? Doesn't sound that great.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted October 14, 2012 Author Posted October 14, 2012 Well you should be very thankful to have an uncle like that. I think your dating life is set as long as you learn from him and try on your own. Does he look a lot younger? does he dress differently? I still can't understand how 40 year old can talk with teenagers in a cold approach. Does he get turned down a lot too? Uh...he dont just hit on teens. He hits on all girls that looks his type. His ex was 35 or something but he messed around on the side alot & got caught so she broke up with him. My uncle looks a little younger he has a ponytail & a couple neck & arm tattoos. He has broken heart designs & stuff & his face is kinda scruffy something like a 5 o'clock shadow I guess & girls only reject him if they ignore him when he calls out to them but he usually always gets numbers alot 'cause he goes to certain types that he knows will say yes. I got no clue how he does this though .
ThaWholigan Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 Uh...he dont just hit on teens. He hits on all girls that looks his type. His ex was 35 or something but he messed around on the side alot & got caught so she broke up with him. My uncle looks a little younger he has a ponytail & a couple neck & arm tattoos. He has broken heart designs & stuff & his face is kinda scruffy something like a 5 o'clock shadow I guess & girls only reject him if they ignore him when he calls out to them but he usually always gets numbers alot 'cause he goes to certain types that he knows will say yes. I got no clue how he does this though . Well you need to find out how he does
Author NYC-BigKat Posted October 14, 2012 Author Posted October 14, 2012 Well you need to find out how he does Yea but am not always attracted to the girls he wants. Sometimes yes but sometimes no it depends u know. My family is mad at him & doesn't invite him to stuff anymore. My mom really really hates him ever since he broke one of her friend's hearts years ago. I asked my uncle about that but he says he never promised that girl nothing & she should know better & how my mom is overreacting. That's what he says though. My uncle is weird 'cause he smokes weed alot but dont look high & he dont talk alot about anything. I like to talk alot so I dont how to go about getting the girls he gets or some of the girls I wanna get through him. I'm confused .
ThaWholigan Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 Yea but am not always attracted to the girls he wants. Sometimes yes but sometimes no it depends u know. My family is mad at him & doesn't invite him to stuff anymore. My mom really really hates him ever since he broke one of her friend's hearts years ago. I asked my uncle about that but he says he never promised that girl nothing & she should know better & how my mom is overreacting. That's what he says though. My uncle is weird 'cause he smokes weed alot but dont look high & he dont talk alot about anything. I like to talk alot so I dont how to go about getting the girls he gets or some of the girls I wanna get through him. I'm confused . It doesn't matter though. Whatever he says to get the girls he gets, it works. It could be key to finding out how YOU can get women, your niche, your way of being attractive. All the other stuff is immaterial. I learned a lot about girls from unusual sources myself, from a crack-dealing relative to a passing acquaintance who I barely spoke to.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted October 14, 2012 Author Posted October 14, 2012 It doesn't matter though. Whatever he says to get the girls he gets, it works. It could be key to finding out how YOU can get women, your niche, your way of being attractive. All the other stuff is immaterial. I learned a lot about girls from unusual sources myself, from a crack-dealing relative to a passing acquaintance who I barely spoke to. Oh? So um..what's immaterial and what's material? What do I need to learn from him exactly since he doesn't say a whole lot to them? He just parties & stuff & smokes the weed & sometimes the girls smoke the weed & then they get to messing around & stuff. One of my friends says is just the confidence & his swagger that not what he says or something. What do u think?
ThaWholigan Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 Oh? So um..what's immaterial and what's material? What do I need to learn from him exactly since he doesn't say a whole lot to them? He just parties & stuff & smokes the weed & sometimes the girls smoke the weed & then they get to messing around & stuff. One of my friends says is just the confidence & his swagger that not what he says or something. What do u think? If he's a man of few words, then it is his non-verbal presence that is attracting girls. Maybe you have to learn that. Obviously I cannot see you, but I imagine you wear your anxiety and nervousness on your sleeve which is analogous to your inexperience. This is non-verbally signalling that you don't see yourself as an attractive, confident individual. Your uncle, on the other hand, is more relaxed, has a "swagger" about him, confident, doesn't say much words, says it all with the way he is. Maybe the weed contributes to that, but I'd imagine that it merely facilitates that part of himself. You, on the other hand, don't need to smoke weed, especially if you don't want to. But you can learn how to communicate with women non-verbally. Being attractive. Learn from your uncle how to be more relaxed around women. Simple. The rest may follow. You may find that your talking a lot can be used to your advantage and you could become skilled at small talk, and stimulating conversations. Read more books, even newspapers too, learn how to small talk and banter/flirt with girls. The best way to do that, is by being more comfortable and relaxed, which is what your uncle is. He has his niche, it can teach you a little bit about you, but you shouldn't adopt his niche, but use his niche and his experience to find your own niche and how YOU can be attractive to girls. 1
Shaun-Dro Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 Oh? So um..what's immaterial and what's material? What do I need to learn from him exactly since he doesn't say a whole lot to them? He just parties & stuff & smokes the weed & sometimes the girls smoke the weed & then they get to messing around & stuff. One of my friends says is just the confidence & his swagger that not what he says or something. What do u think? I'd say the smoking of the marijuana is contributing to his relaxed nature. And when you mentioned that he knows which girls to target, I take it that your uncle doesn't go after living female specie. He has experience. Something, you, OP, need to learn to adapt from so you can benefit from it and be on your way. What else do you want to hear, OP, because you've gotten enough sound advice in here.
threebyfate Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 Your uncle's amoral. He also attracts girls who like free drugs. 2
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 Between the drugs and age, I am betting your Uncle's penis looks something like this Uncle's thingy My guess is he might also have a couple STDs. 1
Shaun-Dro Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 There's no need to project DY, just because women turn leathery after 35 doesn't mean the same is true for men. I agree. It's the same bitterness time after time with some of these women in the threads. If a man has success with women, no matter how he employs his strategy, certain women lash out with venom. It's stupid and childish and it only further proves my points about most women being naturally irrational.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 There's no need to project DY, just because women turn leathery after 35 doesn't mean the same is true for men. Lol. Post a picture and lets see how you look. I feel sorry for you Greznog. But I feel even more sorry for Shaun-Dro because my guess is he is younger than you. The best part, to me, is the fact that it's DY. The same DY who has, time and time again, espoused the view that women remain fit, healthy and attractive well into their nineties and that men who like em young are somehow wrong or perhaps even perverted. Yet here we see that she thinks a little weed and being 40-45 means his penis must look like a turtle neck. Which leads me to believe she doesn't actually believe any of the 50 and fabulous nonsense she spouts on here 24/7 and knows that younger = better. Don't worry, plenty of young guys looking for easy access while they work on getting their education or building their career so they can get the women men really want, young and fresh. Not quiet what I've said on the board. I said that women and men both age. Although my Mom is in her 50s and she is fabulous. She has a lot going for her. And her whole existance isn't based around bashing men, something that seems to become an overly active part of your existance and a few other LS men that don't seem capable of growing more healthy views of women. I think men that focus on young women are actually unevolved and immature. I can look at someone younger than me and say, "What a handsome boy/girl". But to actually be attracted? That's something different. So when someone who is getting 10+ years older starts hitting on regularly and talking non-stop about how "younger" is better, they got some things they need to work out. And they probably place just as much worth in their own age and aging process yet they don't verbalize this for themselves which is why they project ageism so heavily on women. I've heard enough conversations between men to know that men feel aging just as much as anybody. That they dont like their middle-aged spread, their balding heads, their wrinkles and other age related "handicaps". 1
Author NYC-BigKat Posted October 15, 2012 Author Posted October 15, 2012 Ahhh, another rocket scientist, I see. Let's get this straight. A 17 year old teenage girl is NOT a woman. A 17 year old teenage girl can't vote, drink, own property or enter into a legal binding contract of any kind. Don't be calling a minor CHILD a 'woman.' Obviously certain people let their genetalia think FOR them here on Loveshack. You let it type for you, too? Jesus. And for those who are so shortsighted that they see nothing wrong with going to the mall PURPOSELY to prey on young 17 year old girls of a 'certain type' (now why doesn't that surprise me that the young girl has to be a certain 'type' in order to give some stoned 40 year old scumbag the time of day???) then you have serious issues. You dont know what you'r talking about so dont talk! My uncle is not some scumbag guy ok? He hits on all ages of girls that he likes. Why make such big deals out of teen girls? Thats bad bad bad 'cause he likes all girls and so what? I really think Shaun dro is right about bitter people in here and I notice after many threads I do only guys give me advice not one girl here has gave me any advice nope so dont talk if you not gonna help .
threebyfate Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 You dont know what you'r talking about so dont talk! My uncle is not some scumbag guy ok? He hits on all ages of girls that he likes. Why make such big deals out of teen girls? Thats bad bad bad 'cause he likes all girls and so what? I really think Shaun dro is right about bitter people in here and I notice after many threads I do only guys give me advice not one girl here has gave me any advice nope so dont talk if you not gonna help .Your uncle sells drugs, cheats in relationships and tries to pick up underage girls in the mall while in his 40s. If you believe him to be someone to emulate, then do so. The rest of your family appear to be more grounded, well aware he's a scumbag. 2
ascendotum Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 You will be better off raising your daughter the best way you know how to recognize unsavory characters and to avoid/ignore them, so you don't have to watch over her all the time and you don't have to end up on assault charges for attacking a guy who is doing nothing illegal, assuming he is not offering her pot, which I get people are jumping to that conclusion (if its the later then its a bit different). Creeps come in all ages. Some of the young guys (17-early 20s) I knew when growing up who did pretty well with girls, were just into the pump & dump, or would lie, or would get girls stoned or drunk then take advantage of them...just saying. 1
Shaun-Dro Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 Your uncle sells drugs, cheats in relationships and tries to pick up underage girls in the mall while in his 40s. If you believe him to be someone to emulate, then do so. The rest of your family appear to be more grounded, well aware he's a scumbag. Another Old Jane focusing on the part where the guy's uncle made a pass at some young women in the mall. It's interesting that you conveniently skipped the part about them being perfectly legal in NYS and the part of the uncle messing with older women as well. Clearly, the guy is a Romeo, because women are responding to him. I bet you dames would'nt have been so hard on what he does if he zeroed in only old hags.
threebyfate Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 I just dont know u know . Anyway um..he's between 40 & 45 & messes with girls anywhere between 17 & 40. He was in a relationship with a lady 35 last month but she broke up with him when he cheated with a younger girl I think was 20 or 21. My family wants nothing to do with him 'cause he likes to drink & smoke weed alot & he sells the weed alot too. Yesterday me & him was at the mall & he told me to approach these 2 teen girls but I said no! He laughs & goes to them anyway & they flirt with him & he gets their numbers & I dont know what to do 'cause now he gave me one of them & the girl says she is 17 & I dont wanna get in trouble but my uncle says they are legal. Is he lying? He also had sex with 8 girls last month & 2 teen girls mixed in. I'm worried 'cause every time we hang out he wants to get a girl, any girl! I do love girls but I want a girl that I want not some girl he just throws at me all the time. Should I stay away from him? Are alot of other guys like this? Another Old Jane focusing on the part where the guy's uncle made a pass at some young women in the mall. It's interesting that you conveniently skipped the part about them being perfectly legal in NYS and the part of the uncle messing with older women as well. Clearly, the guy is a Romeo, because women are responding to him. I bet you dames would'nt have been so hard on what he does if he zeroed in only old hags. His uncle is scum. If you wish to emulate him, do so.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 How many men here would want their father to hit on 17 year old girls, do drugs and cheat on the women he was with (possibly your mother?) Do you guys run around berating your own mother's about their apparently fading beauty and worth to your father? Or to other men? What do you think the women in your life would think to hear you say the things you do about women around here? 1
Shaun-Dro Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 How many men here would want their father to hit on 17 year old girls, do drugs and cheat on the women he was with (possibly your mother?) Do you guys run around berating your own mother's about their apparently fading beauty and worth to your father? Or to other men? What do you think the women in your life would think to hear you say the things you do about women around here? For the life of me, why can't you just focus on the fact that the OP's uncle just cheated on the woman he was with and smokes/sells weed to be good enough cause to dislike him? Why does it matter if he cheated with a teen or an old maid pushing the shopping cart? Cheating is cheating, period! Now lay off the age thing as the only cause to attack.
kaylan Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 (edited) There's no need to project DY, just because women turn leathery after 35 doesn't mean the same is true for men. Men age no better than women. Everyones skin sags, stretches, and gets gray hair.FFS get off it Greznog. No one here is arguing whether older men find younger women attractive, we're talking about some 40 year old creep cruising the mall with a bag of pot approaching high school girls. We're not talking about 40 year old men going after 20 year old women. Only the completely classless and CLUELESS would think this behavior is acceptable. I don't have daughters but I can GUARANTEE you that if I had a 17 year old daughter and found some stoned 40 year old scumbag with a tattoo on his face trying to get together with her, her father (or I) would put his worthless ugly tattooed head right through the closest brick facade wall in the mall. You're so damned determined to push your bitter agenda here that you'll sanction ANY scumbag behavior at all just to make your overdone point again and again and again and again. I guess some people will always be classless fools. This. And greznog is the same kind of poster that applauds men dating younger, but when women date younger good looking guys apparently its because older men dont want these women . It couldnt be that good looking older women have options and can snag sexy young guys. People always have to turn any sort of age gap relationship into an insult towards women.A womans body is at its most attractive around her 20th, so if your uncl can hook up with girls in that age group, more power to him. Women are attracted to status, wealth, power, style, humor, men who would make a great father and physical beauty. Men are attracted to physical beauty. Brand new information! Stop the presses!!! Men are not solely attracted to physical beauty. If that was the case, most guys wouldnt hold out for wives who bring a total package of attributes. And the fact is that plenty of smart guys dont simply go for a pretty face.You dont know what you'r talking about so dont talk! My uncle is not some scumbag guy ok? He hits on all ages of girls that he likes. Why make such big deals out of teen girls? Thats bad bad bad 'cause he likes all girls and so what? I really think Shaun dro is right about bitter people in here and I notice after many threads I do only guys give me advice not one girl here has gave me any advice nope so dont talk if you not gonna help . Im sorry, but only creepy scumbags go to the mall to hit on teenage jailbait who can be anywhere from 14 to 18 years old. When Im in the mall, or simply out and about, I do sometimes see attractive teenage women's bodies. But once I see their face or behavior, and can acknowledge that they are under 20 (my cut off) or 18 (legal cutoff) I simply forget about those feelings as I dont pursue young girls...especially not ones who arent even in college. Sorry OP...your uncle is a fvking loser and theres a reason your family dislikes him. Get a clue kid. Edited October 16, 2012 by kaylan 1
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