my exes friend passed away suddenly....

[lovehurts5]

I found out my exes friend passed suddenly at 530 this am. I picked up my phone to call my ex to see if he's ok but stopped because I didn't kno if it'd be appropriate. What do I do?

[geegirl]

You've been struggling since July to get over this. Your healing is priority.

 

He will have friends and family to support him through this.

[a.b]

Hard to say, how did things end between you two and how long ago?

 

But I suppose there is no harm in just letting them know you are sorry about the news and hope they are okay....

 

For support....

[a.b]

You've been struggling since July to get over this. Your healing is priority.

 

He will have friends and family to support him through this.

 

Never mind, forget what I said!

[veggirl]

don't call him. of course he's not "okay"--his friend just died. who would be okay? you don't need to call to find out. you are no longer his support system, you can't worry about how he is doing.

[Jack32]

Probably best to move on and not contact him as others said.

[robaday]

Id do what you feel like - If my I thought something like that had happened to any of ex's I would call or at least send condolences. But thats just me - I think sometimes its way too easy to demonise people or hold grudges when reality is you shared a lot of time together, and regardless of their faults you loved them at one time.......but yeah, thats just me, id be happy to hear from mine too!!

[lovehurts5]

I wasn't expecting anything in return but I just felt so bad I felt I had to text him... I just said "Hey. Heard about your friend. I just wanted to say I hope you're doing alright. If there's anything you need let me know". He just said "thanks". I feel that I got out my peace at least because I felt terrible. I could only imagine if it were one of my friends.