nowwhatnow Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 i have been hanging out with this guy for a couple weeks and last night thinks got really flirty and i there were a lot of moments where it seemed like something was gonna happen. we have also been texting a lot too. then he basically tells me that he likes me a lot but just got out of relationship and is enjoying being single and doesn't want to lead me into thinking it is more than and friendship and start something he can't follow through on. which is completely opposite from how he was acting last time i saw him. so basically this means...?
stillafool Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 That means if the two of you end up having sex at some point that you should remember you two are FWB and nothing else. People who just ended a relationship normally want to play the field and find out what is out there before settling down again. If you want a bf don't look to him.
utterer of lies Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 He thinks you are f*ck buddy material, not good enough for a relationship.
Balzac Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 He's a relationship kinda guy. Possibly warning you that right now he's only into/available for casual dating/sex. He's up front and likely does not want drama about sex escalating to you wanting "more".
JayL Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 i have been hanging out with this guy for a couple weeks and last night thinks got really flirty and i there were a lot of moments where it seemed like something was gonna happen. we have also been texting a lot too. then he basically tells me that he likes me a lot but just got out of relationship and is enjoying being single and doesn't want to lead me into thinking it is more than and friendship and start something he can't follow through on. which is completely opposite from how he was acting last time i saw him. so basically this means...? From someone who recently got dumped by a gf, listen to me. I've been single for 5 weeks now, I've been talking to 4 girls to get my mind off her, I've been flirting with them etc etc. My intention? Maybe one day I'll like one of them the same way I felt for my ex when I started dating her, maybe not. He is currently emotionally unavailable and is looking around to see who's out there that can one day take the empty spot in his heart and life that his gf left open. He recently got out of a relationship, he misses sex. Trust me, I've been going nuts lately. It's been a month and a half since I last had sex and It's driving me bonkers. If a girl is DTF, I don't really engage in a sexual intercourse outside a relationship or exclusive dating stage, but I might actually go for it. I'm pretty sure he's on the same page.
veggirl Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 It means he will sleep with you but you will never be his girlfriend and he will be actively seeking other women while sleeping with you.
Author nowwhatnow Posted October 12, 2012 Author Posted October 12, 2012 well we cleared it up and basically i said im not sure what he is implying and he said he just wants to be friends. not FWB. just friends. so while im disappointed, i think we can move past this a be friends without either of us longing for more. on to the next i suppose!
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