Necromancer Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 Since i don't want to be the winner of the title "Creep of the year". I don't flirt much with random gals here. Today sat down beside a girl and started talking to her while she was just on FB on the computer I was pretty confident all the time, talked for 2 min and then she was like "what do you want from me". clearly she was not interested but at least i tried, better luck next time.
Necris Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 Since i don't want to be the winner of the title "Creep of the year". I don't flirt much with random gals here. Today sat down beside a girl and started talking to her while she was just on FB on the computer I was pretty confident all the time, talked for 2 min and then she was like "what do you want from me". clearly she was not interested but at least i tried, better luck next time. sounds like my typical cold approach. Sorry I have no advice, man.
MrCastle Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 Today sat down beside a girl and started talking to her while she was just on FB on the computer Was she on the computer when you first approached her? Or did she start facebooking as you were talking to her? Either way bad news. This was a girl who wasn't in the mood to be approached. She was preoccupied with something else. You have to pick your targets more wisely. 1
Necris Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 Was she on the computer when you first approached her? Or did she start facebooking as you were talking to her? Either way bad news. This was a girl who wasn't in the mood to be approached. She was preoccupied with something else. You have to pick your targets more wisely. Aren't most people in general pre-occupied with something usually? It would be pretty odd just to see a girl standing by herself just waiting for a guy to come along to approach her, and if she is just standing there odds are she is waiting for a friend or boyfriend or husband.
xdahliax Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 I'm sorry, but you must have been giving off somewhat creepy vibes because most girls will do anything (switch seats, tell you they're focusing, give short answers like "mhmm" or "ya...") to make sure you get the hint before actually confronting a guy with "what do you want from me?". She may have been in a bad mood which made her fuse shorter, but I feel like I don't have complete information from your post.
CptObvious Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 hey, at least you fought through the at-bat til the end. No shame in striking out like that. All you can do is keep trying.
LittlePrince Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 I'm sorry, but you must have been giving off somewhat creepy vibes because most girls will do anything (switch seats, tell you they're focusing, give short answers like "mhmm" or "ya...") to make sure you get the hint before actually confronting a guy with "what do you want from me?". She may have been in a bad mood which made her fuse shorter, but I feel like I don't have complete information from your post. Most women don't have any manners. It is as simple as that.
xdahliax Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 Most women don't have any manners. It is as simple as that. Why? Because they never give you the time of day?
LittlePrince Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 Why? Because they never give you the time of day? I have a watch for that.
Author Necromancer Posted October 10, 2012 Author Posted October 10, 2012 Was she on the computer when you first approached her? Or did she start facebooking as you were talking to her? Either way bad news. This was a girl who wasn't in the mood to be approached. She was preoccupied with something else. You have to pick your targets more wisely. She was on fb when i approached her.
Author Necromancer Posted October 10, 2012 Author Posted October 10, 2012 I'm sorry, but you must have been giving off somewhat creepy vibes because most girls will do anything (switch seats, tell you they're focusing, give short answers like "mhmm" or "ya...") to make sure you get the hint before actually confronting a guy with "what do you want from me?". She may have been in a bad mood which made her fuse shorter, but I feel like I don't have complete information from your post. She was 4 years older than me. she made a little hint yes. Answering with "hmmm yeahh totally" often.
xdahliax Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 She was 4 years older than me. she made a little hint yes. Answering with "hmmm yeahh totally" often. Yeah, well assuming you didn't do anything out of the ordinary, she was rude to you. Just be careful with those little hints when you're talking up a girl, she has to be making an effort to keep the flow going if you want to consider it a "conversation". If she's never asking you questions or making meaningful comments about what you're saying, she's not interested. Also, I don't know how old you are but 4 years can be a big gap. Especially if you're still in school and the man is younger than the woman.
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