salem mark Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 I have been on LS for several years, all because of this one woman. (if u want the background read all my old posts i wont bore u with it on this thread) She dumped me 2 yrs ago, I've been in NC mode, Since then she initiated emails several times. Last week, she wanted to share Skype info (which I agreed to) She has been initiating all IMs' Last week it was all all very warm, sunny messages, even blowing kisses and even asking me to invite her for a visit (I live in another state) This week I get weak responses, (yup, nope etc.) Did I make a big mistake trying to resurrect this? What do I do now, kick her off Skype?
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 2 years and you don't get it yet? If she's not running back to you with "leaving you is the biggest mistake ever" "I WANT to work things out", you are being fed breadcrumbs. 2 years man!! Drop/delete/forget her or you'll be here in 2 more years with the same problem. Or the infamous thread "it official on FB, she's in a serious relationship".
CarrieT Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 What does your gut say? You've been no NC for two years - that is a long time - are you interested in a reconciliation at all? If it is a wound best left closed, then block her and move on.
Tiera D Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 Breadcrumbs/Ego boost , i know deep in you,you know what it means so i will tell you again! Breadcrumbs! TD
Liz2012 Posted October 11, 2012 Posted October 11, 2012 Hard to tell because these things can't start full on again, they do have to build up but that said you have to find out if you're a friend to her or if she has feelings. If she isn't responding to flirting the way she used to maybe that's a sign it's just friendship.
meeji Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Just ask her why is she contacting you. Tell her that you still have feelings and if she does not, then you don't want to remain in contact with her
mammasita Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 I used to do that to one of my exes. We were long distance and whenever one of my local flings didn't work out, I would go looking to reconnect with him. He was old faithful.
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