sendme Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 okay... so I'm casually dating this guy... two hours ago I ask what he's doing tonight, he says nothing do you want to get together, I said what about the baseball game he says I'm thinking of taking the night off because I have another one tomorrow... I say okay, I'm going to take a shower and then I'll be over, and he says, no I'll come to your place two hours go by and I don't hear from him, so I send him a text that says "did you fall asleep? did you stand me up?" another half hour goes by and he says "No I just finished the baseball game. can I come over?" well now I'm put out... I mean really he couldn't just tell me he went to the game? I feel like it was very inconsiderate, but I'm bad at casually dating... so what would you do... let him come over... or say goodnight?
BellaMarieOC Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 If you are looking for a relationship then say goodnight. His behavior was incredibly rude and I wouldn't stand for that, especially so early on in dating. If you don't mind being his casual fling, (when he feels like it) then by all means keep in contact. But have your guard up.
mammasita Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Very thoughtless, rude, inconsiderate......etc. If you are pursuing something more than a "casual" thing then write him off. If you're ok with a booty call, have at it!
River Rain Posted October 12, 2012 Posted October 12, 2012 Casual or not, he sounds inconsiderate, I'd say goodnight.
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