nvroadkill Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 Recent history: BAD TIMES, accusations abound but the reason for mine? Avoided any and all talk about me going to a friend of "his'" funeral.. Supposedly I knew the person from business but obviously they never made an impression.. reason for me going... When H got the news he cried and recently recovering from a heart attack... etc.... I was cautious of him being out and about and dealing with the BS surrounding this person's "arrangements. He was gone for 4 hours.. when he left his wedding ring was on.. when he came home.. it was off.. Needless to say curiosity has gotten the better of me since.. AND SINCE THEN... (including that day) Voice-mails have come in.. from "friends," one which the only thing said was "Hi Honey Bunny." Fast-forward: Calling around for new insurance quotes... I needed his DL #, he gives me his wallet and I accidentally drop it.. a yellow post-it note falls out and written on it is a hotel name and room #??????? I eventually find an excuse to leave the house... so as not to obliterate this a**h*** verbally or otherwise... I return, he's asleep, I leave a lengthy "note"... and slept on the couch... His reply to my note (Incidentally I left mine written on his lunch box) He called me a nigger and if I really wanted something to do I should call around to (AND THE MF listed about 12 hotels with room numbers) that I could basically start there.... Casturate him or what?
DEEPLATINQUEEN Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 What a loser. Fist he can not be man enough to fess up- I mean we all make mistakes, we're human- But come on and to further disrespect you by callin gyou such a terrible name- whatever- Label him as a loser and move on.
Taken_Angel Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 Oh my! Why would he call you that kind of name??? Is he saying to call around to these hotels to see if he's been there or to see if you can find a place to stay or...? I'm sorry if he's been cheating on you, no one deserves that but it happens all too often. I wouldn't deal with it personally, everyone deserves better than that. You should take so time to sort things out, if you decide to work things out then you have to know....people only do to us what we allow them to do. If we don't tolerate this type of behavior then it won't happen (yes he can cheat but not on you if you don't stick around to allow it). As far as what to do with him, well since you can only control yourself and no one else I say leave him and let him realize what he's missing! Anyway good luck and I hope things work out for you.
Author nvroadkill Posted July 28, 2004 Author Posted July 28, 2004 Yes - of 7 months... we've known each other for 5 years but actually only dated an extremely insane short period before taking the "plunge." Thanx for responding... FYI: he left way earlier than usual for work and had a voicemail on his phone (from a male) at 15 prior to his work time which (is extremelu unusual) and makes me wonder if the jerk even went to work.... Gawd I HATE a**holes!
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