poprocks Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 My bf and I have been dating 4 months. In the beginning he'd text me all day long. I liked that. As time went on, the number of texts per day would decrease...sometimes he'd not text me all day, but he'd call me after work. There was always communication daily. Sunday, he didn't talk to me or reply to my text. When I asked, he said his phone was off and he slept most of the day. He's not talked to me today... Yesterday, I kinda got a little emotional when he was over. I said I was getting more feelings for him and it was kind of scary. Stuff like that. He reassured me, was glad I was being honest with him, and told me to not have my guard up. We do say I love you on a regular basis. I'm just confused as to why he's not talked to me today.... =/
january2011 Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 Some guys cool off the contact when they feel more secure and comfortable in the relationship. Your guy could be one of these guys. That is, he feels confident about the relationship and doesn't feel the need to constantly be in touch to remind you of his existence. If you don't like that, then you're going to have to let him know that you need more frequent contact during the day. Alternatively, you can take your mind off waiting for him by focusing on other things. Perhaps even better, why not initiate some contact yourself. Four months of dating surely gives you the confidence of contacting him just as much as he contacts you? Worse case scenario is that something bad happened. In which case, get in touch anyway just to see that he's alright.
Silly_Girl Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 OP, you have 2 identical threads. I know 'cos I just replied to the other one. Maybe try contacting a mod to have one removed?
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