Vikki_26 Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 He wanted friends but it turned in to more and we slept together. It turned nasty. No were no going to be friends again. Its over. I will probably still bump in to him at events. But I am so heart broken its unreal. No one to cuddle or hold me. As they are all away. I cant breathe through the pain. Help. I want to die.
bluefairy812 Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 He wanted friends but it turned in to more and we slept together. It turned nasty. No were no going to be friends again. Its over. I will probably still bump in to him at events. But I am so heart broken its unreal. No one to cuddle or hold me. As they are all away. I cant breathe through the pain. Help. I want to die. heartbreak is the most unbelievable pain. it's horrible. i'm sorry to hear it's over. take this as a lesson for next time if he ever does come around. you are no one else's 2nd option. i know it's hard right now but this is your time to slowly pick up the pieces. accept that it's over and move on 1 day at a time. its been three months for me and i still cry and suffer as well, so i understand your pain. try to do this that make you feel better. have some ice cream, adopt a pet, read some self help books, etc. little by little you will feel better. you also need to really and truly accept the situation for what it is. you will get through this. remember he has a choice. he can be with you, but each day he is making he decision not to. you sound like you are better off anyways.. my heart goes out to you. from one broken heart to another <3 1
Danb32 Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 I feel your pain. I'm only 18 but I feel I could die. I feel my my chest has exploded and nothing in the world will fix it but them. They meant so much to me, said so many things to me, I truly thought they loved me like they said, I never thought things would end up like they did. I'm sure you feel the same. It hurts to breathe, talk, walk, think, sleep and even eat. Even though Im a LONG way from through this, this is what is helping me: Look back at pictures of yourself and friends, facebook posts you made, anything from before you knew them, and realise you were once happy by yourself. You CAN be, and you WILL be happy once again. A break up is something EVERYONE has been though (pretty much). Think of your idol, favorite singer, author, actor, anything, and realise theve been through it and there alright. There are millions of people feeling worse than you right now. And although he was special and different and you could never be the same with anyone else, EVERYONE else is thinking the exact same thing, and they all end up fine. I know how hard it is, I feel as though I cannot live anymore. If you want to talk or share things together please contact me, maybe it will help. Take care of yourself. 1
mrfamilyguy Posted October 10, 2012 Posted October 10, 2012 He wanted friends but it turned in to more and we slept together. It turned nasty. No were no going to be friends again. Its over. I will probably still bump in to him at events. But I am so heart broken its unreal. No one to cuddle or hold me. As they are all away. I cant breathe through the pain. Help. I want to die. Hi Vikki. Keep strong. i know its easy to say but time is a great healer. Ive had my heart severed twice in a year...the first time was with a girl i thought id never get over. i did. Its never easy and im going through it again. I find walking around the house we shared the hardest. Death does seem like a nice option right now so that pain can disapear but keep in there. If you ever need to talk dop me a PM, im in the UK so a chin wag with a stranger can sometimes help put things in perspective! keep strong
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