ashtree-house Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 I have a little bit of a sticky situation.. A mutual friend of my ex-boyfriend (and close friend of mine) is moving and she wants to have a going away party with all of her closest friends. My Ex, my friend, and I were all co-workers together for years, and she was very close to us both as a couple and individually. She is moving next Tuesday, very out of the blue job offer, and wants to have a going away on Friday night. (With packing, and setting up living arrangements, she only has time to squeeze everyone in that night). The only problem is, she is hesitant to invite my Ex because she doesn't want it to be uncomfortable for me..Although she is still friends with my ex-boyfriend, she really became my support system during the break-up, and obviously knows how hurt I was. Although our break-up wasn't mutual, it was amiable and clean. Of course, I really miss him but I don't have any anger or resentment towards him. I know I can be civil, and really with the amount of friends going, I can probably get away without speaking much to him. We have been in NC for about 2 weeks, and have been broken up for a little over a month. I know she really wants him to come, as he is an important friend of hers, and I don't want to be the reason he won't be able to attend. I don't want to be selfish. Should I encourage her to invite him? Should I bite the bullet for our mutual friend circle? Thanks, sorry for the rant
flitzanu Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 um, no. given the choice, you do not want your ex there. especially if you just broke up 2 weeks ago.
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