JayL Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 Since many here are still considering getting back with their ex bf/gf that treated them like crap, why don't we all vent out on this thread and list the reasons why we should not get back with them and hold onto it? If you feel that urge to run back to that person that treated you like dump, read the reasons again why you broke up. I'll start with mine : 1. History of sleeping around. While I did not let this fact stop me from being with her, I have a very strong feeling that she has "a lot" of guy friends for reasons that she lied to me about, which takes me to #2. 2. My gut feeling is telling me that she's hidden so many things from me to make me stay. She was not very honest. 3. She led me on. She said she wanted to be with me etc etc. but her actions showed that she didn't. 4. I felt like I was only an option and a friend with benefit. If all her friends are working, she spends time with me, if her friends are free, she spends time with them first and then when the day is almost over, she will text me and say "you can come over any time now". 5. She said she hates too much communication and yet, she's on her phone 24/7 with her guy "friends". Although I did not read the message, there were way too many names popping on the screen everytime her phone lighted up and I'm sitting right next to her. 6. I recently realized that she's been single for 5 years for a reason. She likes to keep the thrill and the fun and when she's bored of someone, she tosses them into the "friend" category, as she offered me friendship after our break-up. Which leads me to think that those "guy friends" that she talks to 24/7, I let her hang out with 1 on 1, were once in my shoe. 7. I was not happy in the relationship. I felt neglected, I felt like a past-time toy or last resort. 8. She dragged me down instead of bringing me up and making me feel happy that I was with her. Your turn people! LET'S ALL MOVE ON TOGETHER! 1
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