whatheheckhappened Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 new to site and searching for answers. im a 36 yr. old male and she is 30. met online and she intiated contact. we emailed for a while and first date was drinks and a bite to eat. she pursued 2nd date a week later. turned out to be take out food at my place where the relationship became intimate..no intercourse tho. 2 weeks later i called an we had a 3rd date where we met at her place an went out to dinner.. i wound up staying at her place overnite where we were intimate..taking it further but no intercourse. the relationship was building emotionally, intimately an phyiscally. We then took our courtship to the next level with her spending an entire weekend at my place..doin fun things, an taking our relationship to the next level by having intercourse. She met my parents that weekend b/c they live in the same neighborhood..it wasnt planned. She then invited me to meet her family the following weekend out of state. Met her family, stayed the night, was respectful and had a great time...and made plans for the following weekend. She ended it this past week, saying "its not you, its me..she liked me and thought i was sweet..but the relationship was not progressing." I asked if something happened when i visited her family? She said "no, they liked u." We wished each other the best and hung up. I am thinking of reaching out b/c i thought we had a connection. however, i am prideful and dont want to be needy but i need more clarity. any suggestions?
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