Necromancer Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 As we can easily spot if a person we find not attractive is interested in us, ain´t most of the guys in the FZ being lead on... I have had female friends who have rejected me but still want to keep me as friend after that,one even begged. (Jesus how good it felt rejecting a hot girl,face to face). So why the **** want they still to keep me around after they rejected me and knew that i was interested in them?. ain't those girls just selfish or am i wrong?. Btw, the attraction grew i wasn´t inerested in them at first.
MrCastle Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 -They genuinely like you and want to maintain contact even though they don't see you in a romantic light -Ego boost -Someone they can use to do things for them -Someone to talk to when they're bored -Someone to talk to when they don't want to annoy the guy they're sleeping with -Someone they can pour their emotions out to without fear of coming across as needy or crazy or turning off the guy they're sleeping with
verhrzn Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 Um maybe because they liked you as a person, but didn't want to get in your pants? Shocking, I know. 1
Author Necromancer Posted October 9, 2012 Author Posted October 9, 2012 -They genuinely like you and want to maintain contact even though they don't see you in a romantic light -Ego boost -Someone they can use to do things for them -Someone to talk to when they're bored -Someone to talk to when they don't want to annoy the guy they're sleeping with -Someone they can pour their emotions out to without fear of coming across as needy or crazy or turning off the guy they're sleeping with I might consider to keep one of them around, just to be hitting on her 24\7 and see how pissed she will be. To bad for her that we are in same class in one catagory.
verhrzn Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 I might consider to keep one of them around, just to be hitting on her 24\7 and see how pissed she will be. To bad for her that we are in same class in one catagory. What the hell man?? She rejects you romantically, so you're going to get back at her by messing with her? Why are you punishing her JUST because she didn't like you enough to sleep with you? If you don't want to be friends, fine, move on, but don't play sick games. 1
MrCastle Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 I might consider to keep one of them around, just to be hitting on her 24\7 and see how pissed she will be. To bad for her that we are in same class in one catagory. It varies for me. Typically what I've done in the past is kept them around as social proof, and to learn more about females in general. Now, more often than not, if she tries to friend zone I just say "haha thanks but I don't do the friend thing" and cut contact. Unless they're super cool and I really do want to stay in contact with them; but that's rare.
Author Necromancer Posted October 9, 2012 Author Posted October 9, 2012 What the hell man?? She rejects you romantically, so you're going to get back at her by messing with her? Why are you punishing her JUST because she didn't like you enough to sleep with you? If you don't want to be friends, fine, move on, but don't play sick games. She's an retard, trust me on this one.
CptObvious Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 I might consider to keep one of them around, just to be hitting on her 24\7 and see how pissed she will be. To bad for her that we are in same class in one catagory. not sure if mad or just trolling.
CptObvious Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 She's an retard, trust me on this one. http://weknowmemes.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/good-good-let-the-butthurt-flow-through-you.jpg
whatheheckhappened Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 new to this site and trying to post my own thread
phineas Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 Um maybe because they liked you as a person, but didn't want to get in your pants? Shocking, I know. This I can accept & even embrace. But when they cock-block me then it gets ugly. I honestly would love to have a female friend to help me shop & decorate my house so I was more pleasing to other women & in return I would gladly offer up my skills as a jack of all trades & not try to get her naked once. sadly, it's yet to happen.
somedude81 Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 It's always boggled my mind that girls will refuse to date you but still want to spend time with you. They want to have their cake and eat it too. Why should the guy have to put aside his feelings so the girl can get the friendship she wants? If the girl wants to spend time with him so badly, she should just fu*k him and get it over with. Or leave the guy alone.
phineas Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 It's always boggled my mind that girls will refuse to date you but still want to spend time with you. They want to have their cake and eat it too. Why should the guy have to put aside his feelings so the girl can get the friendship she wants? If the girl wants to spend time with him so badly, she should just fu*k him and get it over with. Or leave the guy alone. Well, I've recognized that most women do not want true friendship with a guy. They feed off the fact the guy wants them and use him for validation/ attention. Knowing that I put them to work. Being seen with a hot chick makes other hot chicks want to know you. It really is that simple. However, when a woman realizes I'm not going to chase her & I hit on other chicks in front of her, she either stops being my friend or decides she wants me. This is something I picked up on recently. sadly I I pretty much told quite a few women I had enough friends before I figured it all out.
verhrzn Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 This I can accept & even embrace. But when they cock-block me then it gets ugly. I honestly would love to have a female friend to help me shop & decorate my house so I was more pleasing to other women & in return I would gladly offer up my skills as a jack of all trades & not try to get her naked once. sadly, it's yet to happen. Hmm, maybe that's why my guy friends have never tried to get in my pants (that and I'm fat.) I happily wing-woman for them, offer to take them shopping or decorate their place. I try to offer my services as "the gay best friend" to my single guy friends.
verhrzn Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 It's always boggled my mind that girls will refuse to date you but still want to spend time with you. They want to have their cake and eat it too. Why should the guy have to put aside his feelings so the girl can get the friendship she wants? If the girl wants to spend time with him so badly, she should just fu*k him and get it over with. Or leave the guy alone. Um... he doesn't have to put aside his feelings. He can leave. He can either be her friend without complaining, or not be her friend. Girls want to spend time with you because they enjoy your company but are not attracted to you. Have you HONESTLY never had a single person whose company you enjoyed but you didn't want to f*ck?
somedude81 Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 Well, I've recognized that most women do not want true friendship with a guy. They feed off the fact the guy wants them and use him for validation/ attention. Knowing that I put them to work. Being seen with a hot chick makes other hot chicks want to know you. It really is that simple. However, when a woman realizes I'm not going to chase her & I hit on other chicks in front of her, she either stops being my friend or decides she wants me. This is something I picked up on recently. sadly I I pretty much told quite a few women I had enough friends before I figured it all out. I really need to learn how to play that game. Maybe I could rent a friend, like a prop, so other women would be interested in me. Um... he doesn't have to put aside his feelings. He can leave. He can either be her friend without complaining, or not be her friend. Both are valid choices. Though it gets weird when the girl doesn't stop wanting to be his friend. "No you can't date me. And no, you can't leave me." It's not really said like that but it's the same idea. Girls want to spend time with you because they enjoy your company but are not attracted to you. That's a hard concept for me to understand. Probably because one of the main reasons why I want to spend time with a girl is because I am attracted to her. Have you HONESTLY never had a single person whose company you enjoyed but you didn't want to f*ck? Sure, every guy I've hung out with. No sexual interest in them at all.
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