MW93i Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 It's been a while since I've been on here, I've moved away to university and things have gotten so much better. It's been a month and a bit since me and my ex broke up. We've met up a few times, i've been civil and had a laugh with her (always a friend with me tho) although shes the one who is hurting now because I'm moving on and speaking to other people. Anyways we just had a phone call as she text me saying 'Do you seriously not want to 'chat' to me anymore? I dont know why, but its upsetting me. Have you forgotten about everything, about us already? I can't even talk to you without feeling awkward or you rather talk to other girls' Now this is weird.. I had to ring her, she has a go at me at how fast I've moved on even though shes the one who stopped loving and caring for me but theres more.. she told me she has been facing depression for 3 months and that was the actual reason for breaking it off with me... Shes wanting me to have 'proper' conversations with her.. and acting like we should be best pals. She's already regretting breaking it off with me and everything too. This is not what I want at all, the odd text now and again is enough for me. Full blown conversations with my ex girlfriend arent. Even though we both want to be friends it just isnt the way to go about things right now. The conversation on the phone ends with me saying ''It has absolutely nothing to do with you who I talk to, see or go out with' Then she put the phone down. I have no idea what this girl wants from me.. Can someone offer any advice at all?
Balzac Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 "although shes the one who is hurting now because I'm moving on and speaking to other people" You kinda sorta began to make the statement you need to repeat until you believe it! Focus on yourself. Forget trying to figure out a girl that dumped you. N E X T
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