b18bme Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 Well my ex broke it off with me about 2 months ago. I pleaded and begged to the point where she said to leave her alone and I have been. It has been pretty much no contact for the last 3 weeks just a quick call her and there. The thing is we promised eachother we would go swimming this summer so I have been hitting the gym extra extra hard, and I am looking really good. I want to start complete no contact and she can call me if she wants, but first I wanna go swimming so the last picture she has of me in her brain is my six pack and nice pecs. The question is should I just start the no contact now or should I go swimming with her next week to show off my new body and make her see what she will be missing. I really want this girl back bad and just trying to figure out how to do this. I know that no contact is more for me to get better but it should make her notice me more too and I just want her to remember how good I look and how nice I am the last time we hang out. What should I do????
honey2005 Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 You really want to be with a girl who just wants to get back with you because you have a nice body? I know how you feel about wanting someone back, I've been there with the begging and pleading, too. But really, in my opinion, the best thing is no contact. The more you see of her the harder it will be for you to let go. And if you two are really meant to be together, she will come back and ask you to take her back, whether your flaunt your new sexy body or not.
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