BetheButterfly Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 This has been going on for months, I really am livid. I texted him, there is a decent sized box with an envelope on that phone when you are not using it, in order to turn the phone back on to get on FB he would HAVE to see that message box. Then when I confront him about it he plays dumb and says "what?" like he has no idea what I'm talking about. I don't get this. Why don't you just talk to him, as in call him or wait till you see him face to face? What is so important that you texted him about that you want him to respond to?
BetheButterfly Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 I am also baffled at your need for him to drop whatever's he is doing at the moment to attend to your needs, but if that is what you need in a relationship, I won't argue with your standards. You have every right to feel the way you do and set your own standards for what you need. He should consider your feelings, instead of not taking them seriously. Instead of ignoring your texts, he should be upfront with you and text back "busy now". He also needs to be honest with you about how he feels about your expectations. If he is annoyed by you expecting such fast responses in your communications, he should be honest about that instead of ignoring you. I agree with this. My husband is at work right now. I know that he is working and have no desire to interrupt him, unless I have an emergency. I don't have an emergency right now. When he comes home, we tell each other about our days. I work from home (though today I have not started yet... need to in 30 minutes though) and we are fine with waiting till we see each other again to enjoy communicating. There's a time and place. OP, Just relax! If he's busy with work, let him do his work! Who cares if he's connected to facebook when he does nothing? I have friends like that too. One of them owns her own company and is busy all the time. Sometimes I have sent her messages and sometimes she replies "busy talk later" and other times she doesn't respond at all till later. It's not a big deal. Now, if he ignores you when he is with you, that is a bigger deal. 1
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