dsw31 Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 If the guy wants to see you multiple times a week... Is he trying to speed up the process to get layed quicker? Or am I just being sinister?
River Rain Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 He probably likes your company don't you think? I wouldn't assume he's only after sex. Your instinct should tell you otherwise based on the quality conversations you have right?
Author dsw31 Posted October 8, 2012 Author Posted October 8, 2012 Thanks for the reply RiverRain, See...that's the thing....we don't even talk all that much! I just met him last week, off of a dating site & we have already been on 2 dates. He even asked to see me again last week but, I denied. We have our third date lined up for this coming Thursay night. He is very attractive & I could see myself dating him (possibly longterm)but.... He is either a little shy, unconfident, or just plain akward. Right after making out, he looks me dead in the eyes & smiles.Then I have this stupid habit of giggling out of nervousness.Then he asks me "what?" I told him it was just a habit but he asks me that like almost everytime we're done kissing.What do you think he wants?To know every single thought going through my mind?
River Rain Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Honey, you have to talk with him more!! It's fun to make out, of course! ;-) But the only way to really connect and get to a good level of intimacy is to get to know him. Maybe you should have some phone dates before seeing each other again? Take it slower. You could get hurt, especially if you see yourself dating him long-term. But you also have to communicate. Oh and I giggle too when I'm nervous, it's very silly and embarrassing sometimes, lol...if you do see him Thursday and it happens again and he says "what", then start talking about something serious to see if he'll respond. If all he wants to do is make out, then maybe he's just in it for the physical.
oaks Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Is he trying to speed up the process to get layed quicker? If you mean that he wants to get to a point where you want to have sex with him, then what's wrong with that? Don't you like sex?
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