CarrieT Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 A poster on the first page basically said that she'd never give a stranger the time of day because he's obviously only seeing a pair of big boobs.. That's an assumption on her part, really.. Seriously, though? Does a guy have to hope that a female he is personally physically attracted to somehow finds herself in his social circle to make his attraction seem more "genuine", or what? That was me. And I didn't say I would never give a stranger the time of day. What I did say was this: It is those who took the time to talk to me and get to know me and THEN were still attracted to me that were of value in my life. Believe me - I know the difference between a guy who is looking at my rack and trying to pick me up and looking at eyes while making conversation. It is not an assumption at all, as you surmise. It is infinitely easy to see in a person what is "genuine" or not. I have enough experience in this realm to be able to discern "genuine" guys from players, regardless of their physical attraction. There was a reason I was single so many years. I went on lots and lots of dates and gave lots of strangers the time of day, all for naught.
phineas Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 Every GF I ever had I never found "hot" until after I had spent time with them & found out they were naughty little monkeys in the sack. Of course I always seemed to date the skinny girl who dressed frumpy & turned out to have a smoking body & was a freak in the sack. I guess I was just lucky that way? 1
monkey00 Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 If I'm not attracted to a girl/ or find her pretty from the getgo, in most cases the attraction will not come. Though there have been a few instances where it did happen, but it's quite rare.
ScreamingTrees Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 Believe me - I know the difference between a guy who is looking at my rack and trying to pick me up and looking at eyes while making conversation. It is not an assumption at all, as you surmise. It is infinitely easy to see in a person what is "genuine" or not. I have enough experience in this realm to be able to discern "genuine" guys from players, regardless of their physical attraction. There was a reason I was single so many years. I went on lots and lots of dates and gave lots of strangers the time of day, all for naught. I can understand, then, you've gotta do what you have to do to avoid the total sleazebags.
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