sabrinaroselanexx Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 new to the forum hi guys so there is this guy i've been speaking to since last year, but we've lost contacted and just got back in touch again. when i first started talking to him i fell so hard for him, i just never had the guts to tell him. now we've got in touch again i've fallen all over again! he's all i can think about, i was so close to booking a train for tomorrow to go and see him but i don't want him to think i'm clingy or something like that. we were talking about how our love life has been and it killed me to hear that a girl screwed him over, he's so perfect and i have no idea why anyone would do that. we are about 6 hours away from each other which isn't far i know but i just don't know what to do! i don't know if i've made it obvious that i'm interested and i'm not sure i want to, i don't want to scare him off i was thinking of sending him the link to my post but is that too creepy?
justwhoiam Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Give us some more background. How old are you, how old is he? How long have you been talking to him before losing any contact? And why did you stop talking to him at all?
Author sabrinaroselanexx Posted October 8, 2012 Author Posted October 8, 2012 i'm 19, he's 21 we were talking for a good few months, maybe three or four months. could have longer i can't remember, i literally shared my life stories with him. things i've never told anyone i don't know why, i think it was just one of those things were we couldn't make the time to talk because of what was happening in our lives, my sister just had a baby and then i was ill with glandular fever
ana0pera Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 i would bite the bullet and tell him how you feel, it will save you a lot of heartache and asking yourself "what if." do it soon before you get in too deep with liking him and he not knowing your feeling. Have the two of you met in real life yet? Perhaps the two of you could meet somewhere in the middle to go to a festival or something, or if there's something going on in his city, you can use that as a way to meet him/hang out with him and have it not be too awkward since you guys are just friends. it seems that you two share a lot of personal information and the fact that you've started talking again after a pause is a good sign--good luck!!
justwhoiam Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 if there's something going on in his city, you can use that as a way to meet him/hang out with him and have it not be too awkward since you guys are just friends. That seems like a good idea. You'll get an idea if he's interested in you other than as a friend. I wouldn't hurry up saying anything about your feelings though. It'd be way too risky for me.
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