KraftDinner Posted October 8, 2012 Posted October 8, 2012 Oh, and when we were out watching football last week with my sister and her guy, she was gloating a little because her team scored (like people do when they're watching sports), and he didn't like it so he says "you better stop annoying me with that or you won't like me very much." Not cool in my book, just lighten the heck up. Gotcha. Yeah...not cool.
RachR Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 This guy gives me the creeps. And I say so what if he's "different" when you're alone? How he acts toward you in front of others is not okay, he disrespects you. Gross. I'm all for teasing and being teased, but his behavior is more along belittling you...
monkey00 Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 Sounds like the usual class clown who jokes too much to get attention. Very immature. There's an obvious line between witty humor and inappropriate remarks...well his is the latter obviously. I have a friend who's like that and this girl he was seeing snapped at him during a party about it (when stepped away from the party obviously). You could be that girl too.
Author kristinpea1979 Posted October 9, 2012 Author Posted October 9, 2012 Sounds like the usual class clown who jokes too much to get attention. Very immature. There's an obvious line between witty humor and inappropriate remarks...well his is the latter obviously. I have a friend who's like that and this girl he was seeing snapped at him during a party about it (when stepped away from the party obviously). You could be that girl too. Yeah I have a feeling it would come to that if I stayed with him. As a matter of fact, this weekend was when it REALLY started to have a negative effect on me, and it was a big weekend for my family with our annual pig roast. I HAD been looking forward to introducing him to some family and friends, but his immature comments the night before and morning of turned me off so much that I barely spent the day near him. He was taking it upon himself to go up and introduce himself to people as my boyfriend before I even had the chance and when I wasn't even around. Now, he is telling me that I made him very unhappy this weekend by how I treated him and he doesn't see how he's done anything wrong. Figures. I hate that I am the one feeling bad about things.
dispatch3d Posted October 9, 2012 Posted October 9, 2012 (edited) somebody watched cocky funny with david d and tried "using it" in the wrrrrroonnng places whollly crap. haha funny sausage comment regardless ****. Just mention what its like to be around this from your point of view, and ask why he keeps doing it. Yeah you need to talk to him about it more. Edited October 9, 2012 by dispatch3d
Author kristinpea1979 Posted October 9, 2012 Author Posted October 9, 2012 somebody watched cocky funny with david d and tried "using it" in the wrrrrroonnng places whollly crap. haha funny sausage comment regardless ****. Just mention what its like to be around this from your point of view, and ask why he keeps doing it. Yeah you need to talk to him about it more. I don't know if it is something worth talking about. I highly doubt it's a behavior that JUST started - he is 35. He's been allowed to talk this way for years and it's probably been received better by his own friends and family, maybe even his past girlfriends. I can tell him what has been bothering me and he can say he WILL change, but I am too skeptical now. He knew that type of humor bothered me before we even met, and he pushed too far. The comment would be funny...in a movie....not in front of my own father and brother!
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