nelly011 Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 i've known this girl for almost a year now and we kinda hung out during the year but my friend was interested in her so I never thought anything of it. Well now that we're out of school we live down the road from each other and shes really the only one I know around here and vise versa. We've been hanging out alot lately and we drink together all the time. Shes a very flirtasous person and she always sends mixed signals. Like she'll pretend that she likes me one second and then when I go to kiss her shes says no and moves away. But then 5 minutes later she'll be hanging on me. This has gone on for 2 months now. In my case its gotten to the point where I like her alot but I dunno if she feels the same way. Can anyone help me with this?
honey2005 Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 If you really do like her, tell her how you feel. If she says she doesn't like you the way you like her, ask her to stop hanging on you all the time.
Author nelly011 Posted July 28, 2004 Author Posted July 28, 2004 I have told her how I felt. She always changes the subject. I've told her to stop it but I don't want to sound mean b/c shes a good friend. I mean she works at a Hotel at the front desk and she has guys asking her out all the time. And now its at the point where I'm starting to care way too much about what she does. I'm starting to get jealous. For some reason I can't stop trying to care
Scorpion1691 Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 Jeolousy will end it for sure. She may feel comfortable with you and likes to play. Play back without boundries. you tie her down she will probably run.
Mr Spock Posted July 28, 2004 Posted July 28, 2004 Does she hang off you when she's sober? Or just when she's hosed? Drinking may lower her inhibitions or judgement enough so that she'd do things she wouldn't normally do.....
Author nelly011 Posted July 28, 2004 Author Posted July 28, 2004 She hangs on me whether shes drunk or sober. With the whole jealousy thing, I'm finding that I like to know what shes doing at all times and I think I'm starting to smother her but I don't know what to do
ross Posted July 30, 2004 Posted July 30, 2004 I woudl do ONE thing for TWO reasons if I were you. Start looking at other girls.....before it's too late and you can't see them for you infatuation of her. (harsh to say, but unless she's returning the love, it's not love). When you aren't there to hang out with and tease, she'll either get serios with SOMEbody, or you'll know she just wasn't interrested in anything more than the conveniance. I find the best thing tat works with woman though is a letter. Even my wife will try to change the subject if its something she don't want to talk about...........but a little note to her and then a follow up phone call to ask her if she got it goes a long way. If this girl is avoiding the subject, its because she is uncomfortable about it.........so you (for you sake) need to approach her in what she would see as a non- treatening way.
Author nelly011 Posted August 1, 2004 Author Posted August 1, 2004 Alright so I've tried talking to her and I know she has no interest in me. She said that we were just friends and thats it. Its hard to find a girl b/c where i live is a very large tourist town so girls are coming through all the time. The only time I can look for a girl is when school starts back aug 18th. Thats 3 weeks from now. I like this girl alot but I keep trying too hook up with her but deep down I know nothing will ever happen between us. I try to hang out with my guy friends but every 5min in my mind I'm like I wonder what she is doing right now?
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